How do you time your shagfests?

[TigerseyeMum]

We are switching from shagathons timed before during and after ovulation, to the 3 times a week every week NICE recommendations.

The reason for this is because my cycle has suddenly become irregular so ovulation is not so obvious. I haven't done temp charting yet but that will be the next stage.

Due to my age and condition if I don't conceive within a year I will be referred back to my specialist. And if my cycle gets much beyond the current 40 days I will ask to be referred asap

Wondered how others approach the SWIing? Which method do you reckon brings the most success?

(Obviously, if we shagged twice a day every day that would increase our chances, but it would deplete our energy too!!!)

Not much help but I've been wondering this too. We've just starting TTC and as I was on the pill have no idea how long my cycle is. We've agreed to SWI at least every couple of days, although at the moment it's every day

Not sure how long we can keep it up though!

hi well ive been ttc too but last month or month before i had a 48day from my last period not good
but have been having heavy periods now for a year since i had the loop exciosn done for cin2
which was back in feb last yr 2010
this month i got a showing of ov on the 27th and 28th of dec 2010
that was the first from my cbfm as it was new it needed to know my cycles etc
my prolactol came bk high 3 weeks ago or 4 weeks ago extremely high it dus that if your pregnant ob i wasnt
usually my periods were 30 to 40 days last year
this year i have been having from one month 26 to another month 30 days to another month 28 days
etc
but last month was bad as had 48 day one
never had that in my life
when i have a af i bleed for two weeks or longer this month though wasnt to bad had it for 10days so it was good i can get bk to having sex lol
im seeing my gyne on the 14th jan
and im really neverous
that imay not be ov all time etc
ive had lots of pregnancys resultimng in eptopic ms and termintaions
and ihave one 14 year old he was my first
anyways i do hope we get it sorted
i dont have sex all time as tired but did on the days before my cbfm showed up with 2 bars 4 days before ov and then when i apperntly ovualted too and then the next 2 days after that too
so good luk everyone
sorry icannot be of no help really
x:)wishing everyone luck and try out a clearblue feriltiy monitor
sell them in boots amazon and ebays for cheaper price

Trythis plan. I followed it and conceived!

I was charting too.

Thank you both, I shall try that plan, seems a bit intense but shall give it a go!

I have never had irregular periods before, and they were bang on for a while and now I have gone to 40 days

Bleddy typical.

hi tigereye and ladygonegaga
how are you both
to tigerseye ive never been 28 or 26 days in my life well as far as i can recall
i found my calender for 2008 as it was me to you bear one and i collect them so ilooked at it my periods were from 30 days to 38 or before
anyways now im bewteen 30 and 40 days with last month being 48 days
and month before 38 i think and the month before that i was 30 days and month before that iwas 26 days but that was from spotting for 3 days then had porper period 3 days later
just had enough of it all basically
my periods have been up the creek since april or before ... ihad cin1 then 6month later they checked me again and it turned into cin2.... in jan 2010 i had aloop excision i reckon since then my periods been messed up nightmare
i dont know whats wrong !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and also i bleed from 2 weeks on
this month was 10 days now if iwould of been any longer maybe wioudnt of had the 3 bars this month or if i had adone i wouldnt of able to try to make baby x
dont give up anyone
we all here to support each other x:)

Mine used to be 32 days like clockwork, I have endometriosis so went on the pll back to back for 10 years, came of it then for 3 months reverted to the 32 days clycle, then 34, 34, then 40

I am 37 so it makes me paranoid that I am heading straight from the pill to menopausal decline...

I hope it settle down this year. Will try the tips above this month and see if anything happens...

Hope you get some answers too :)