here you go harrizeb a new thread for ya!
sorry to hear about af what a bugger!!
as for the holiday thing i think you should keep ttc if thats what you want to do and sod the other families (sorry to be rude) but its whats important to you that matters not them. itd prob be best to talk to dh and make sure you agree on what you should do about the holiday and maybe even talk to the other parents, im sure they'l understand.
anyone testing soon? hope everyone is well!