thanks everyone, i am feeling more on the side of believing its a boy DD was in same position and they sed think its a girl but cant be sure as her legs are closed and she was a girl, and i have felt diff and like this one was a boy since day1 so fingers crossed :)
WHYWAIT- good idea to start a list of dates :)
nannyl-sorry your feeling so rubbish, i felt really nauseus rite from the beginning but was never actually sick and had a few near faints 
the exhaustion will wear off i was falling asleep by nine and now can make it past half ten :)
JS- they say sperm lives up to 5 days, so there is prob only a small risk im sure your DP wudnt think u planned it
mrs satsuma- hmmm suspensful im not sure whether its a word mite be lol, im hoping to have a 3D san at 26 wks if i can get my dad to pay hopefully we can know for sure as we dont need to buy any clothes if its a girl but will get to have fun buying blue stuff if it is a boy, but dont want to buy stuff untill im sure
squirral- our nursery is also yellow, well more of a lemon so it will do baby no2 aswell
bebe- wow i wud love to c them enjoy your nite of freedom and try not to worry about DD to much easier sed than done i know :)
strawberry- hope the bleeding has settled down and your ok
AC- how nice that your parents r on hand, my dad and all his side lives in malta and my mum works full time, so no free babysitting for me :(
Quod- waves hope all is goin well for u
think thats everyone 
if i have missed anyone oops