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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Charter's Anonymous: Volume 3, here's to better luck this time for us all!

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spilttheteaagain · 03/11/2010 14:15

A shiny new thread girls and hopefully we shall all get merrily up-duffed with sticky beans Grin

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spilttheteaagain · 08/12/2010 15:44

First things first. I will see what my temp is doing tomorrow. I'm sure it will drop and AF will arrive.

Hope you get your second line terrys

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WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 08/12/2010 15:54

not stupid spilt. totally natural given what you have gone through. Your body is supposedly quite fertile after a uterus 'trauma' if thats what it can be called! (without trying to be-little anything iyswim)

I am having a wobbly day :( thought i had discoloured CM earlier and cramping, feel like am coming on... boobs are huge but nothing else. I think i am just paranoid given last pg. DH says its still very early which it is, but it doesnt stop those terrifying thoughts. Have dug out a gyno locally who does early testing plus also miscarriage testing (so whichever applicable!! ie hopefully scan!)

Sorry for the me me me post Xmas Smile

LadyGoneGaga · 08/12/2010 15:56

Don't panic, Spilt - you would prob find that your body has probably built up sufficient anti-bodies to the Toxo by now to not effect the baby.

Anyway, as others have said, see what happens tomorrow and don't dwell on the What ifs. A baby now could be meant to be, hon.

Getting excited for Terrys Xmas Grin

LadyGoneGaga · 08/12/2010 15:59

Sorry you're having a wobble, Nix. It is agonising, isn't it? If you do have spotting is likely to be implantation at this point especially if brown and light, similarly with cramping. I was really crampy for ages - just the bean burrowing in. How many weeks/days are you? Wonder if would be worth EPU if worried - they normally scan at 6 weeks don't they?

I spotted with DS and was fine - isn't always bad. (Hugs)

TerrysNo2 · 08/12/2010 16:02

Nix I think its normal to have up days and down days - those damn hormones are to blame. Try not to worry! I hope the gyno helps allay your fears. Smile

I am not getting excited LadyG and I am a terrible liar!!

spilttheteaagain · 08/12/2010 16:10

Nix poor you, pregnancy is so worrying. I will add my experience to the mix. When I got my BFP I had about a week of bad period pain/cramping and felt very pre menstrual (lots of CM). That took me to 5 weeks and everything was fine at that stage. Just the bean bedding in. Hope yours is fine.

And "trauma" seems a perfectly appropriate choice of word!

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WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 08/12/2010 16:27

ah thanks guys, what concerned me this morning (TMI alert Xmas Blush) was it felt like something popped out, and it was a lot of CM at once, so of course, i am thinking has the plug that had built up just gone.. and is that the start of another MC. Just feels diff also. I hope so much its burrowing and that it was just lots of CM, only time will tell i suppose. Seeing GP anyway tomorrow so if i still feel the same will prob burst into tears and demand a HCG test! The alternative is i get a CB digi which checks the hcg levels/wks etc... and resume temping in the morning!

5+1 ladyG

Oh i hope so xx

spilttheteaagain · 08/12/2010 19:55
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TerrysNo2 · 08/12/2010 20:04

Ummm, so you don't know me IRL, but if you did you would know that patience is NOT my strong point.

So, please look at my pics and tell me what you think.

Here

spilttheteaagain · 08/12/2010 20:10

It's a line, it's a line!!!

Well done terrys!

Did you just do that?

I soooo want to know my morning temp and POAS! Am crampy.

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spilttheteaagain · 08/12/2010 20:11

What a lovely posh pee stick too!

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TerrysNo2 · 08/12/2010 20:12

I literally just did it, held my pee for 5 whole hours (anyone who already has a DC should know that's impressive!!) Grin

I am starting to get a teensy bit excited now. Grin

TerrysNo2 · 08/12/2010 20:12

It's a First Response, I am getting all my OPK and PG test recommendations from LadyG!

mousebacon · 08/12/2010 20:16

Just logging in to look x

mousebacon · 08/12/2010 20:20

Ooh! It's a line - I love this game! Congrats terrys! Now, if you're anything like me you've just got another 6 to go Xmas Grin xx

spilttheteaagain · 08/12/2010 20:21

This place is going to be empty in about a week at the current rate. What's that now, 5 ish BFPs in about a fortnight?

Come April I shall be having in depth charting conversations with myself Sad

"Lovely chart spilt. Well done on all that SWI".
"Yes I know, marvellous isn't it. When should I POAS?"
"Oh I think now dear, get a purple pen handy to draw the extra line on when it isn't there doesn't show up properly."
"ooh look, BFP!"

I shall miss you all. Don't leave me!!

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TerrysNo2 · 08/12/2010 20:23

spilt we would never leave you here all alone, I will be staying on here firmly till I see that scan and until I hear a BFP from you - I want to hear your happy ending! Smile

mousebacon · 08/12/2010 20:24

Don't worry spilt, you'll never get rid of me Xmas Grin x

I want to be here for your BFP Smile xx

spilttheteaagain · 08/12/2010 20:31

Hehe, mouse we are the Original Charters from way back when when Silver first started this thread. She must be over 30 weeks by now. Shocking where time goes. When I get a BFP that sticks it will be About Bloody Time.

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mousebacon · 08/12/2010 20:35

Here here my lovely, here here.

I have an image of us being the old ladies in the corner with our knitting! Do you ever wonder how we'll spend our days when all the ttc-ing is over?!

IfAtFirstUDontSucceed · 08/12/2010 20:38

Wow Terrys that is fantastic, am really really chuffed for you Grin. This has definately become a lucky thread! Spilt, there will be several of us that will stick around until each and everyone one of us is duffed-up - myself included! x

GetDownYouWillFall · 08/12/2010 20:39

Terrys Shock and Grin Congrats my dear!!

spilttheteaagain · 08/12/2010 20:42

God knows mouse. Have to start SFF I guess. Hmm. Alien concept.

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spilttheteaagain · 08/12/2010 20:44

So BFPs so far (on Charters 3 that is)...

LadyGG
IfAtFirst
Nix
Coastgirl
Mouse
Terrys
anyone else?

Most respectable, well done everyone Grin

mouse have you broken the news to DH yet?

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WhenStNixgotstuckuptheChimney · 08/12/2010 20:47

Yey Terrys fab - a line is a line!! WOW this has become the thread to get your bfp on hasnt it?! Ah spilt we will all still be here for when you get your BFP (which may be sooner than you think Xmas Grin )