TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

[Diddle]

Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

missmibaby - its tough isn't it, we all do that every month, and we try so hard not to get our hopes up, but really they are high already, then when you come on, all that hope is lost, but whne our bodies are ready for us to carry another baby then we'll have one. i truly believe that. There is still hoep for you this month isn't there? how long are you cycles normally?

Missmibaby - I totally agree with Diddle, it is soooo hard to try and not get your hopes up, but it is only natural that we do. I try so hard each month to relax about it and not get obsessed with it but it never works and then when i come on it's the lowest of the lowest feeling and you have to pick yourself up and do it all again! But we will get there and when our bodies feel that we can carry a baby again, we will get that BFP! Try to stay positive - i know it's so easily said but please please dont bottle things up on here, you can be yourself 100%! xxx

missmibaby - we have a members stats thread that you could put your details on and also read about us too.

member stats for ttc after a m/c

You know i've only just figured that i my stats weren't on there! Tut Tut! LOL

Morning ladies!
Been pampering myself as we have a family photo session this afternoon and want to look nice on photos.

Welcome missmibaby.So sorry for you loss .We have all been through it her and as you will read there is hope.Maddyd has just found out shes pregnant and shes about our age (I am 38)(hope you dont mind I mentioned that Maddyd )

How are are ladies in waiting this morning? Has it sunk in yet Maddyd and Wills?

Hope the rest of you are ok.Chat laterx

Im sure im only 21 How i got a 17 year old ds i dont know. Where has the time gone.

or even a 17 yearold dd. I have pg brain already

Lol at Maddyd
How u feeling today hun?

Hello girls

Big congrats to the 2 BFP, who will be next? Welcome to the 2 new girlies. I am on CD 24 today, last month was a 28 day cycle, if this is too will be testing soon. Should I wait a couple more days? Test I bought the other day said it can be used 4 days B4 AF due which will be Sun, maybe I will test tommorrow. Have no symptoms, not AF or Preg symptoms.

Hello girls

Big congrats to the 2 BFP, who will be next? Welcome to the 2 new girlies. I am on CD 24 today, last month was a 28 day cycle, if this is too will be testing soon. Should I wait a couple more days? Test I bought the other day said it can be used 4 days B4 AF due which will be Sun, maybe I will test tommorrow. Have no symptoms, not AF or Preg symptoms.

Watcha ladies! Welcome missmibaby, sorry to here about your loss, but as the others have said, you're in good company here.

Feel tired today as I couldn't sleep because of a strange ache down the left side of my pelvis last night. It felt like the descriptions of ov pain I've heard, but it's way to early in my cycle for that. I had to take a pain killer at 3 in the morning to eventually get some sleep. It still feels a little twingy today. I'm cd8 and I normally have long cycles so it couldn't be ov pain already could it?

read through everyone's stats last night. God its a sobering read! Whoa. Anyway getting over shock moving more and more into fear . trying like mad not to plan/hope etc. Am adamently trying to stop myself from calculating my due date (had to skip rapidly past that bit maddyd ). I'm now firmly back into the wonderful routine of shooting off to the toilets to check every sensation adament that thats it. Oh am back to being a breast basher! Glad they hurt so much - reminds me that everything's ok.

Reading the stats made me realise that I really ought to shift onto a preg after mc and for those still trying having me on here might not be fair. But...

a) You lot are great!
b) I'm not really ready to admit to this pregnancy yet. Its as though admiting to it will somehow make it not so. I can't even bare to click on the ante-natal clubs heading FFS! In most things I'm an incredibly rational person so why I have suddenly become Miss Superstitious 2005.

ROLL ON 14 WEEKS (Prob somewhere in mid Nov).

CH - did you see the bit on dyslexia?

Sorry - Welcome Missmibaby. I had a faintline once and wanted to see more and went out and bought another test that was a very cheap one. It came up blank. So decided I hadn't. The cheap test was at fault not the faint line one. Finally went out and bought a more expensive one. Don't want to get your hopes up too much cos it hurts when you hit the ground again. But from what I've read a faint line is more significant than a blank.

In terms of your age I know exactly what you mean. I'm just behind at 36 and scared that I may not have enough time left. So I can definitely relate to that. Thinking of you {{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}

Just a quicky to say hi and welcome to missmibaby ... so sorry to hear about your miscarriage - it's so hard isn't it - but we're all going through the same thing so we can appreciate how you feel.

And wills - don't feel like you have to move - I love it when one of us gets pg, gives me hope! So even if you do move, promise you'll still check in?

I'm on cd8 today - dh gets back on Thursday, I go away on Monday so that gives us days 10-14 (if we manage early Monday morning bd-ing!) and then I'm back on day 18. My average cycle is 27 days so maybe this month isn't without all hope!

wishingchair, strike1 - haven't heardf rom you for ages, how are you both doing???

Hi Diddle, I'm tired and down today, can't help thinking about how pg I would be now and wishing and hoping and regreting and longing, all those things I said I wouldn't do

Trying to be hopeful about this month but not sure I have the energy to get excited about it anymore, silly really.

hello all,
i would like to join your thread, i am ttc - well dp and i have decided that we will start ttc.
i had a stillborn dd 3 months ago born at 23 weeks they wouldnt even try to resusitate her because of the stupid 24 weeks viable life policy, it was my supposed due date yesterday and i am feeling so blue.
i would love to be pregnant again but know that i will be a complete nervous wreck til i reach way past 23 weeks. anyway i get the feeling many of you know how i feel, so i think ill hang out with you guys for a while if thats ok.

Helloo-hoo!!!

Wow! You're a chatty lot this morning!! Where do I start??!!

Hi Missmibaby! Welcome to the thread. I think everything I could say has been said so all I will say is Welcome and I am so sorry I hope we can get you through and offer some support. I think you'll love it here !!

I've read through whats gone on this morning, but, y'know what? - I've forgotten it already!! So will just say howdie-doodie! and how the devil are you all???

Oh Diddle - glad you got back okay...

Hi Slinkstah! I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine what you have been through But I hope you will find this thread of some comfort and support. We try our best XXXXX

Feeling one of my GROUP {{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}} coming on...

Do you know what girls? - We are all bloody marvelous

Sorry, had to say that

strike1 - not silly at all, its totally normal to feel like that we all have those days. Your turn will come, soon hopefully

slinkstah - welcome to the thread, so sorry to hear about your loss, i can't imagine what its like to get that far through your pregnancy, but i know there are lots on here who do. we will support you in any way we can. Feel free to let off steam and moan as much as you want to we know how you feel.

Thanks coathanger, you made me loved the group hug needed that

Thanks for the welcome everyone. Bit of a moody day for me to join. I'm not normally so pessimistic. Just keep thinkning about that faint line. Will test again at the weekend. I've been following your thread for a couple of weeks now - so I feel I've got to know you all a little bit.
BTW what do ov pains feel like. I don't remember any pregnancy symptons until quite a few weeks in.

LOL

missmibaby - i never noticed ov pains until after my niscarriages, i thin they feel like someone poking you in the abdomen with a needle, i get pains like that, i presume they are ov pains.
so you've been spying on us then hope we've all been lovely.

Ooo, my word! Trying to think of the things i've said over the last few weeks Hope i've been a good girl...

You've all been lovely - just saying the things I feel.