TTC after a Miscarriage - Let This Be Our Lucky Thread!!!

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Right Ladies, lets hope this helps speed up our ability to read and type more messages and help and support one another through these tough times.

This thread is for laughing at, crying at, screaming at, bawling at!!

We've all been through so much, and together we can get one another through it. Lets Do It!!!!!!

Here's to weeks of Bd and legs in the air

Love and positive hugs to you all.

xxx

Oooo just missed you me thinks

AAh Shelly24, am really sorry for you were you treated nicely at the hospital ? did they offer you an ERCP ?

i have to wait until friday to see if it comes away naturally,and if it hasn't they will offer me something then...Lady i saw was really good though

so so so sorry shelly what a terrible thing to happen to you sending you love and hugs xx

Just remembered that my hairdresser had a stillbirth followed quickly by a m/c.3 months later she fell pg again and following a very nervous pregnancy which she otherwise sailed through she had a little boy who is now 3

I'm so sorry Shelly. Look after yourself. Keep talking, crying and smile a bit too. It will all come right for you soon, you deserve it to so much.

Oh shelly - i've got tears in my eyes, I was dreading this happening to you, esp before finding anything out on Friday. I hope that you're doing ok.
I would imagine going through a m/c is quite diff to a stillbirth, so if you need to talk to us we will be here.
(((big Hugs))) for you and your family.

Shelly Honey. Im so sorry, i cant believe you are having to go through this. Maybe your womb wasnt quite ready yet. God you must be devastated. Have you got people there looking after you??? I really do feel for you, im not good with words but from the heart Shelly, i do hope your ok, your going to have to be strong again. Waiting for it to come away by itself is not an easy choice and it will be painfull both physically and emotionally. If it takes a long time then you could request a d&c and then you can grieve and recover more quickly. Take Care. My thoughts are with you. If i was with you id hug you, but i know we cant take away the pain. We are here for you xxxxxx

maddyd - morning matey, you've got me crying now, that was a lovely message, and you are obviosuly better at words than you thought.
hope you're alright
xxx

Thank u maddyd
I can't help but think that i got pregnant alittle too soon aswell and that even though i wanted it so badly emotionally..physically i wasn't ready i guess
I feel so emotionally drained,and i hate to say it,near suicidal when we first found out that the worst had happened,(sorry,really shouldn't be saying that!)I don't feel like it now though,just utterly down and miserable,i wish i could see what the future holds for me,its soo hard to see anything beyond heartache and pain....sorry for putting a downer on this thread,i really don't mean to.x

Shelly- Oh god babes so sorry {{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}.
Tears in my eyes here.

Right I'm definitely not testing! I'd feel like shite if (big if) I was pg after what Shelly and Peepee have been through!

Also scared stiff too just incase!

don't blame you hellkat, scary stuff all this pregnancy malarky

Its a nightmare isnt it. The pain we go through, for ourselves and others.

Im serioulsy thinking of giving up this ttc malarky. if i ever do fall pg, i will be a so scared of loosing it again. I dont know if i can bear to put myself through it all.

I hope your feeling better Shelly. Big hugs to you xxxxxx

Already thought of that Maddy. Thing is, I actually think I am atm! If I'm not, then I've been thinking about for a while, I think we will knock it on the head and just count blessings we have 2 healthy boys.
Be back bit later all x

Afternoon girls. Well it's all a bit sad here today, and rightly so.Shelly don't worry about bringing us down we wouldn't be human if your situation didn't upset us. I hope you know how much we all care and hope that one day you'll have a brand new baby in your arms. Until that time we are all here for you and each other (starting to sound like Jerry Springer now so I'll stop) But loads of love your way Shelly!

And fingers crossed for you too Hellkat, we need a BFP to keep spirits up. When are you due to test?

I invested in a pesona thingy yesterday (bloody pricey, but worth it I hope) With a view to getting to grips with my cycle. I like the idea of using it after I've had a baby too (hopefully) cause I love to never have to worry about taking the pill again!

I get told that all the time,count your blessings,your are getting on,call it a day.

But I NEED another child soooo bad and after all its my body.

Feel so sad for shelly,I wish we could all organise a suprise party for her birthday (not a suprise now)but I guess we are all scattered all over the UK.

Whats this CAT everyone speaks about,is it like secret messages?

Oh god Shelly I'm so sorry. I've been thinking about you all week. I so wish I could make it all better for you. Hope you find the strength to get through this ... maybe you could talk to the people at SANDS ... and you know we're all here too. Sending you lots of love xxx

Cat is where you can e mail someone directly Chocolatepeanut xxxx Bless you, secret messages

I am such a tit. Want to sell some gear on ebay and considered getting a digital camera (a cheapo one ,dh getting a good one at christmas) but just KNOW that I will do it all wrong!

So miss techy how do you CAT?

like this - it's the "contact another talker" link at the top of the page.

Go to Contact Another Talker at the top of this page and then folllow the instructions.

sorry such a dummy,never saw that

All that bd action had fuddled your brain cell