Trying to concieve, not sure people wil be supportive

[staceym11]

As most of you prob know, im 18 with a 10mth old dd and devoted dh, but we still live at my mum and dads coz we just don't have the means to get a mortgage and as my dad keeps telling me rent is wasted money!!!! my parents are both happy to have us for as long as we want "chloe can get married while still living here if you want" as a direct quote, but as im planning to start uni to study midwifery either next sept (06) or the one after id prefer to have a second baby now, and put the uni off for a bit rather than do the uni and have to put the baby off for 4/5 years!!

I recently had a convo with my dad when i tought i could have been pg (but turns out i wasnt) and he said that if i did have another baby it wouldnt bother them as two dont make that much more mess/noise/stress than one. but does anyone out there think me and dh would be extremely irresposible if we had another baby before finding a house of our own????? please help!

I am with rubles ...
I think that you should go for it. If you want to have your kids young then have them young, plenty of time for study later.
If you were unhappy at home and were desperate to be in your own place but you still wanted a baby sooner rather than later then I would say, save for your own place and have the baby later ...
But your parents sound marvellous, as does your DH and you sound like you have your head screwed on. You are very lucky to get on so well with your parents and be so happy living with them. Many people just don't get this but I do as I would have no problem living with my parents if I needed to.
Do what your gut feeling tells you. Go for it.

thanks ghosty, i know my parents are brilliant and one day they'll know how eturnally gratefull we are, i think you do get my drift, think i just needed to make sure id thought of everything im so impatient though, want to be pregnant now! lol thanks everyone