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The July Bus

712 replies

KnitterNotTwitter · 24/09/2010 11:17

Welcome to the July Bus - a place for anyone TTC a July 2011 baby...

Ding Ding... the bus is ready to depart :)

OP posts:
Brasso4 · 31/10/2010 17:45

Oops should be by then!

queenrollo · 31/10/2010 21:46

oh KLou i hope the vet can give you some good news tomorrow. In the last few months our dog was harder and harder work and yet I'd still rather have her here with me. Will be thinking of you and checking back on the thread for news.

I understand the frustration of those with long cycles too......i'm hoping that my herbal stuff is going to reduce mine but as i had a second 'AF' on day 9 of this cycle i'm not really sure where i stand with what cycle day i'm on and i suppose I won't really know until i have another full cycle (unless by some miracle i am PG this time). The wait and the feeling of not getting as many chances as other people gets me really down sometimes. I almost feel like getting AF every 28 days for a while until falling pregnant would be preferable to this seemingly endless wait from day 35 onwards until AF turns up.

Have had a lovely evening, parents came round for a Hallowe'en 'party tea' and DS really enjoyed it.

LadyGoneGaga · 31/10/2010 22:31

Have you tried charting, Queenrollo? I have longish cycles and also unpredictable and they would drive me insane otherwise. At least I know when I definitely ov so I know when to expect AF and when I can test Grin.

queenrollo · 01/11/2010 08:13

I bought a BBT but haven't managed to keep taking my temp as i'm sometimes woken very early by commuting DP getting up/leaving and sometimes disturbed by a DS having bad dreams unsettled sleep so my temps were all over the place, and not really a good indicator of what was going on.
If i get AF this cycle then i'm going to try the charting again, now the clocks have changed i find mornings easier so may be able to chart better.

LadyGoneGaga · 01/11/2010 08:35

Give it a go Queen. Mine are a bit all over the place due to odd wake up times due to a non-sleeping 2 year old! But still can just about recognise pattern along with charting all the other signs. It really helps me - are you signed up to Fetrility Friend? Takes all the hard work out of it IMO!

jaggythistle · 01/11/2010 09:45

Hello,

I am just jumping on here as I was on the wrong bus Blush

Having decided to start ttc this month instead of next if I was sucessful it would be a July not an August baby D'oh!

Might be back on the August bus soon enough but thought I'd say hi. Due AF next weekend and am going to try to resist any testing till Friday...

queenrollo Re temp measuring - I only did it for a month but it was a bit difficult for mr too with shift working. This may sound mad, but I set an extra alarm for my earliest getting up time (4am Shock) and then I could just go back to sleep and read the temp off my digital thermometer later.

No idea how I would do it now with my 13 month old random alarm clock though...Although he mostly sleeps till at least 5 so am thinking of trying it next month Grin

Good luck everyone.

rosieposey · 01/11/2010 09:50

Just to add - i have a toddler and take my temps at different times too, there is definately still a pattern like lGG says, this is my second month and its working out really well.

Well im super pissed off :( according to the stats today is testing day but of course i started testing on 11 dpo, have had plenty of positives off 10miu IC's but FR are still coming up negative. Did another test this morning and it was so faint you could hardly see it :( I would have expected after 4 days for the hcg to have increased enough to be picked up by other brands of hpt's AF is officially late today and i know im pg i also know because this happened last month that its going to be another chemical - soooo fed up!

Temps are still up - although dropped a tiny bit this morning so i guess coupled with the super faint positive this morning (as opposed to quite a strong result yesterday, have put pics on my profile) that the hormones are on the wane.

Might not get on another bus for a while after this as i just hate the crushing disappointment of getting pg but not actually being able to keep it.

rosieposey · 01/11/2010 10:39

Just removing my name from the stats - well done to all the bfp's wishing you all a lucky bus and i hope not to see you on one soon!

Brasso4 TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL (not sure) AF due 23 Oct/Not sure
Eskarina TTC#1, Cycle 4, UCL 27-35 (tending towards 33ish), AF due 22-29th Oct
absentbump TTC#1 cycle 17 UCL 23-27 days AF due 28 Oct
Fatheadsgirl TTC#2 Cycle3(post 3MC's) UCL30-35 AF due 28 Oct
Rosieroseanna TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle 4 AF due 28 Oct
emsiedoodle TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL 30-35 AF due 30th Oct ish
mrsden TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 30 AF due 31 Oct
kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 2 UCL approx 26, AF due 31st Oct
Jazzy ttc#2 cycle 2 UCL 25-? AF due 31 Oct?
littlemisslozza TTC #3 Cycle 2 UCL 28-30 (so AF due around 1st-3rd NOv
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 (post mc) cycle 3 UCL26-29 AF due 3 Nov
gettingonmyownnerves TTC#2 cycle 9 UCL 25-31 days AF due 3rd/4th November
Cyberjules ttc#2 cycle 2 UCL 30 AF due 5 Nov
Wombat33 ttc#1 cycle 1 (post MC) UCL 31ish AF due 5/6 Nov
MrsP81 ttc#1 cycle 6 UCL 30-32 AF due 5/6 Nov
sillybillymummy ttc#3 cycle 6 UCL 29 AF due 5th-9th Nov
PeevedEve TTC#2 Cycle 17 UCL 27-28 AF due 7 Nov
Wantonenow TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 27-31 AF due 8 Nov
KLou111 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL ? AF due 8 Nov
Goldmaple TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 28-30 AF due 9/10 Nov
FluffySparkles TTC#1 UCL 31-35 AF due 10 Nov
Queenrollo TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 35-41 AF due 11 Nov
Jigglebum TTC#2 cycle 9 UCL 35-40 AF due 11 Nov
Terrysno2 TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 26-27 AF due 11 Nov
BrassicaBabe ttc#1 cycle 9 UCL 27 AF due 13 Nov
Luce2006 TTC#2 cycle 15 UCL 19-36 AF due 14 Nov
inbetweener ttc#3 cycle 3 UCL29 AF due 15 Nov
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2 cycle 3 (round 3) UCL 25-30 AF due 16 Nov
NervousNelly TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 27 AF due 16 Nov
Chocoflakes ttc#3 cycle 2 UCL28 AF due 17 Nov
LadyGoneGaga TTC#2 cycle 1 (post-mc) UCL? AF due 18 Nov.
Greeneyesbigbottom TTC#1 Cycle 15 UCL28 AF Due around 15-18 Nov
Fled to Scotland TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL 26-28 AF due 21 Nov?
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 27 - 44 days AF due - who knows? (after MC)

Missing in Action
Alien06 TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 31-32 AF due 14 Oct
Hippyhen TTC#1 cycle 18 UCL 26 AF due 21 Oct

Graduates
Cep - BFP 13 Oct
Emmylou30 BFP 24 Oct
Scottygirl10 BFP 27 Oct
Mylittlebubble BFP 27 Oct

jaggythistle · 01/11/2010 10:46

Just added myself on. :)

Brasso4 TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL (not sure) AF due 23 Oct/Not sure
Eskarina TTC#1, Cycle 4, UCL 27-35 (tending towards 33ish), AF due 22-29th Oct
absentbump TTC#1 cycle 17 UCL 23-27 days AF due 28 Oct
Fatheadsgirl TTC#2 Cycle3(post 3MC's) UCL30-35 AF due 28 Oct
Rosieroseanna TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle 4 AF due 28 Oct
emsiedoodle TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL 30-35 AF due 30th Oct ish
mrsden TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 30 AF due 31 Oct
kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 2 UCL approx 26, AF due 31st Oct
Jazzy ttc#2 cycle 2 UCL 25-? AF due 31 Oct?
littlemisslozza TTC #3 Cycle 2 UCL 28-30 (so AF due around 1st-3rd NOv
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 (post mc) cycle 3 UCL26-29 AF due 3 Nov
gettingonmyownnerves TTC#2 cycle 9 UCL 25-31 days AF due 3rd/4th November
Cyberjules ttc#2 cycle 2 UCL 30 AF due 5 Nov
Wombat33 ttc#1 cycle 1 (post MC) UCL 31ish AF due 5/6 Nov
MrsP81 ttc#1 cycle 6 UCL 30-32 AF due 5/6 Nov
sillybillymummy ttc#3 cycle 6 UCL 29 AF due 5th-9th Nov
PeevedEve TTC#2 Cycle 17 UCL 27-28 AF due 7 Nov
Wantonenow TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 27-31 AF due 8 Nov
KLou111 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL ? AF due 8 Nov
Goldmaple TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 28-30 AF due 9/10 Nov
FluffySparkles TTC#1 UCL 31-35 AF due 10 Nov
Queenrollo TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 35-41 AF due 11 Nov
Jigglebum TTC#2 cycle 9 UCL 35-40 AF due 11 Nov
Terrysno2 TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 26-27 AF due 11 Nov
BrassicaBabe ttc#1 cycle 9 UCL 27 AF due 13 Nov
Luce2006 TTC#2 cycle 15 UCL 19-36 AF due 14 Nov
inbetweener ttc#3 cycle 3 UCL29 AF due 15 Nov
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2 cycle 3 (round 3) UCL 25-30 AF due 16 Nov
NervousNelly TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 27 AF due 16 Nov
Chocoflakes ttc#3 cycle 2 UCL28 AF due 17 Nov
LadyGoneGaga TTC#2 cycle 1 (post-mc) UCL? AF due 18 Nov.
Greeneyesbigbottom TTC#1 Cycle 15 UCL28 AF Due around 15-18 Nov
Fled to Scotland TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL 26-28 AF due 21 Nov?
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 27 - 44 days AF due - who knows? (after MC)
jaggythistle TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL26/7 days AF due 7/8 Nov.

Missing in Action
Alien06 TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 31-32 AF due 14 Oct
Hippyhen TTC#1 cycle 18 UCL 26 AF due 21 Oct

Graduates
Cep - BFP 13 Oct
Emmylou30 BFP 24 Oct
Scottygirl10 BFP 27 Oct
Mylittlebubble BFP 27 Oct

GetDownYouWillFall · 01/11/2010 12:48

So sorry to hear that roseyposey I don't want to give you false hope, but you have got a positive so it's not over till it's over.

Having said that it does sound similar to what happened to me - got a Clearblue BFP showing 1-2 weeks on day of AF due. I then did another one about a week later and it still only said 1-2 weeks, which made me a bit suspicious that HCG was not on the rise Sad

I got a negative on a first response by "5 weeks pregnant" and by then I knew all was not well. Started bleeding that same day Sad

It is crushingly disappointing, I really feel for you. Maybe the next bus will be our bus - hope so. Take care xxx

rosieposey · 01/11/2010 13:17

Getdown thanks for your kind words this is exactly what happened last month too - and the positive should be really much stronger today given that i started testing positive 4 days ago but instead its barely visible on a super sensitive 10 miu stick.

Maybe next month? I dont really see me being lucky enough to get pg three months in a row though - maybe next year is more likely - fingers crossed though, Good luck :)

KnitterNotTwitter · 01/11/2010 14:18

Hey lovely ladies

Sorry i've been absent for ages but I've been trying not to think about TTC this cycle.... According to my magic spreadsheet I ovulated on Saturday so we managed to SWI on Thursday night but then I went away from Friday morning to Sunday night and was too knackered last night - so if anything does happen this month it'll be a miracle!! Haven't done any POAS so no idea if i actually have ovulated yet this month...

Thought I'd do a quick tidy up of the stats - I've moved a few more people down to Missing In Action which I hope is ok...

emsiedoodle TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL 30-35 AF due 30th Oct ish
mrsden TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 30 AF due 31 Oct
kat2504 ttc#1 cycle 2 UCL approx 26, AF due 31st Oct
Jazzy ttc#2 cycle 2 UCL 25-? AF due 31 Oct?
littlemisslozza TTC #3 Cycle 2 UCL 28-30 (so AF due around 1st-3rd Nov)
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 (post mc) cycle 3 UCL26-29 AF due 3 Nov
gettingonmyownnerves TTC#2 cycle 9 UCL 25-31 days AF due 3rd/4th November
Cyberjules ttc#2 cycle 2 UCL 30 AF due 5 Nov
Wombat33 ttc#1 cycle 1 (post MC) UCL 31ish AF due 5/6 Nov
MrsP81 ttc#1 cycle 6 UCL 30-32 AF due 5/6 Nov
sillybillymummy ttc#3 cycle 6 UCL 29 AF due 5th-9th Nov
PeevedEve TTC#2 Cycle 17 UCL 27-28 AF due 7 Nov
jaggythistle TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL26/7 days AF due 7/8 Nov.
Wantonenow TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 27-31 AF due 8 Nov
KLou111 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL ? AF due 8 Nov
Goldmaple TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 28-30 AF due 9/10 Nov
FluffySparkles TTC#1 UCL 31-35 AF due 10 Nov
Queenrollo TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 35-41 AF due 11 Nov
Jigglebum TTC#2 cycle 9 UCL 35-40 AF due 11 Nov
Terrysno2 TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 26-27 AF due 11 Nov
BrassicaBabe ttc#1 cycle 9 UCL 27 AF due 13 Nov
Luce2006 TTC#2 cycle 15 UCL 19-36 AF due 14 Nov
inbetweener ttc#3 cycle 3 UCL29 AF due 15 Nov
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2 cycle 3 (round 3) UCL 25-30 AF due 16 Nov
NervousNelly TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 27 AF due 16 Nov
Chocoflakes ttc#3 cycle 2 UCL28 AF due 17 Nov
LadyGoneGaga TTC#2 cycle 1 (post-mc) UCL? AF due 18 Nov.
Greeneyesbigbottom TTC#1 Cycle 15 UCL28 AF Due around 15-18 Nov
Fled to Scotland TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL 26-28 AF due 21 Nov?
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 27 - 44 days AF due - who knows? (after MC)

Missing in Action
Alien06 TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 31-32 AF due 14 Oct
Hippyhen TTC#1 cycle 18 UCL 26 AF due 21 Oct
Brasso4 TTC#2 cycle 1 UCL (not sure) AF due 23 Oct/Not sure
Eskarina TTC#1, Cycle 4, UCL 27-35 (tending towards 33ish), AF due 22-29th Oct
absentbump TTC#1 cycle 17 UCL 23-27 days AF due 28 Oct
Fatheadsgirl TTC#2 Cycle3(post 3MC's) UCL30-35 AF due 28 Oct
Rosieroseanna TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle 4 AF due 28 Oct

Graduates
Cep - BFP 13 Oct
Emmylou30 BFP 24 Oct
Scottygirl10 BFP 27 Oct
Mylittlebubble BFP 27 Oct

OP posts:
emsiedoodle · 01/11/2010 17:01

Hello ladies

As I was sat ?working hard? Wink at my desk I suddenly has the cleaver idea to work out how many days into my cycle I was when I found out I was pregnant with my DS. I realise this is a daft question but is it likely to be the same again? Blush I did a test yesterday and got a BFN but tomorrow I?ll be on day 32 which is when I found out before. I must say I did have signs before, I woke up and something was defiantly different - well fingers crossed for tomorrow.

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mrsden · 01/11/2010 17:31

Getdown I'm so sorry to hear about your mc, I'm sending you lots of hugs.

AF was due yesterday but no sign yet. My cycle has been up to 35 days in the past so I decided I wouldn't test until Thursday but then I had a really vivid dream on Sat night where I was pregnant so I did a test yesterday morning and got a BFN.

Me and DH both had really bad flu this month so there wasn't much SWI-ing so I'm not surprised by the BFN. I think being sick might have delayed ovulation hence AF not arriving yet. But until it arrives I am still going to hope that this might be my month! So I won't leave this bus until it arrives.

I am surrounded by pregnant colleagues at work, it seems that someone is announcing their pregnancy everyday at work and every time I go on facebook someone else is saying they are expecting. I had today off work and watched This Morning and Holly Willoughby announced she was pregnant on there, I can't escape! All I could think was "I wonder how long she'd been trying for?".

Eskarina · 01/11/2010 18:43

Hmm, temps gone v high now, but feel crampy and craving chocolate/sweet things so I reckon AF is on her way. I wish this wasn't so bloody confusing. [grump]

GetDownYouWillFall · 01/11/2010 18:54

crampy and craving stuff might be a good thing Eskarina? What about your boobs (sorry I never normally ask someone this question in RL!)

I find the sure fire symptoms for me are sore boobs (esp round the sides), and extreme hunger.

Hoping for you. When you going to test?

MrsP81 · 01/11/2010 19:15

Aaaargh, I did a test at 11dpo when I promised myself I wouldn't! Why why why!? as you can probably guess it was a BFN. Sad I must not do another test until at least Wednesday which is AF due day.

I'm still clinging on with hope to my sore boobs (not literally) especially now that getdown has said about them hurting around the sides because that is exactly what mine are like!

Fingers crossed for you Eskarina, high temps sound hopeful. :)

GetDownYouWillFall · 01/11/2010 19:44

Off to the naughty corner MrsP81!!!

Seriously though, I know how tempting it is! Hopefully you will get a BFP by wednesday.

You have promising boobs (sorry that sounds really Hmm) any other symptoms?

MrsP81 · 01/11/2010 20:36

Not really got any other symptoms - I had lots of crampy feelings over the last few days but that seems to have died down now. I'm charting so I'll wait and see what my temps do tomorrow.

sillybillymummy · 01/11/2010 22:16

Hello ladies, thanks so much for letting me stay on the bus, even though I've been very dormant, I've been mega busy for a month- but actually quite glad to have something to take my mind off this waiting game!
I was away from dh for the whole of the swi -ing time (gutted)
So actually feeling like I don't have a hope for July
We did it before I left (day 9) & came back (day 16) so you never know, but not holding out much hope, think i 'll be off to august bus on fri!
Sorry again for losing touch

Eskarina · 01/11/2010 22:30

Grin annoyingly, my boobs are now fine. They hurt like any thing whilst I was away last week to the point where I was telling DH the right one felt like it had been punched. Then they started leaking, just a tiny bit (sorry, TMI!). But now they're fine despite regular prodding. Of course they went back to normal only after I'd googled around for "sore boobs not pregnant" and got results about cancer and other nasties. I shouldn't really have gone there but google is almost as tempting as a pee stick...

I'm going to try to hold out until either wed or even better thurs to test again because then I'll be late even on when FF thinks I ovulated.
I am rather peckish though Grin

Eskarina · 01/11/2010 22:34

Gah. DH read that last post and then did start prodding me in the boob asking if it helped with making me feel pregnant again. I think he needs a basic biology lesson...

fledtoscotland · 02/11/2010 07:32

Omg this has been a long month. Trying not to obsess this month so am staying away from charts and just trying to focus on regular sex for the next 2.5 wks

Starting physio this week since my arm Is still weak after shingles and having some reiki

KLou111 · 02/11/2010 09:19

Hi all,

Had the best birthday yesterday as my likkle doggy is fine (phew).
Vet doesn't know what was wrong, but it had miraculously almost cleared up, and she's given us some ointment. I am a very happy girlie again :)

I did a cheeky test and is BFN. Hardly surprised as not due AF til 8 Nov but was hoping as am approx 9-12 DPO. Not 100% when as different symptoms at different times but was around last weekend.

Have decided am not going to do any more until when I am due as don't want the heartache for no reason!!

Hope it's a sticky one for you rosieposey x

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