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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all, laughing. All welcome (Part 6)

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KnitterNotTwitter · 23/09/2010 16:10

A lovely place for those either lurking, waiting, WTFing or SWI after MCing...

...with optional fish slapping

OP posts:
inbetweener · 14/10/2010 11:09

Morning all,

Gosh you girls do a lot fo chatting overnight lol. I laughed actually outloud at teabagging !!
Wombat (((((((())))))) Thats horrid when you psych yourself up for something.
I know what you mena about bump envy too, they seem to be verywhere. There here at work too.

Jam - sorry that AF arrived but I always look at it that its an excue to have a drink for the next 5 days lol.

Batfink - well done on finishing yuor exams, must be a nice relief. I cant remember the lkat time I did anything with my brain that didnt involve breasts lol. Dont worry im not a perv I work in a breast cancer unit !

Morning to everyone else, Im sorry I dont know all your names yet or your journeys. I hope I get to though Grin

Well, my bleeding has almost stopped which I am most surprised about. I had fully anticipated it to go on for ages but I guess that hideous lot at the start was everything ?
OH seems to keen to try again this month. Whether his male pride has taken a knock or something I dont know but he seems keen ??

So I guess im on CD5 and according to the ovulation calcualtor thingy I need to be doing the deed from the 19th onwards. I am so new to all this though I havent really got a clue. I took it for granted all those years ago with DD.

Right better do some work I guess although I probably will just trawl the internet for how to get pregnant tips Blush

nickstermum · 14/10/2010 12:24

infertility-fertility.blogspot.com/2008/03/brazil-nuts-liver-and-sperm-health.html

have a shufty at this.
sadly if i grind brazil nuts into DH Food it would probably kill him....allergic! (or certainly his head would swell up like will smith...... Hmm Grin

and this one about pineapple juice.

www.fertilityfriends.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=32659.0

MamaPower · 14/10/2010 12:28

You're all as mad as a box of frogs; teabaggers and pool poo Grin.

Notes to me:
Nix has not only found cervix but observed it does move and change!! Yay!

Batfink studies English but gets drunk and all use of said language goes out the window!!

Wombat that sucks mate! Hope tomorrow is better Smile

Hope everyone else with appoint's today go well (sorry lost track a bit but think Choccy and MummyA have apt's coming up??)

DH has stayed true to his word and SWI began in earnest last night Grin Grin Grin

nickstermum · 14/10/2010 12:51

ha ha ha bonking in unison then.... nope that just sounds twisted and very very wrong

ha ha ha ha Grin

MummyAbroad · 14/10/2010 13:32

Morning!

LadyB and Jammy so sorry AF got you

and wombat I totally feel for you with the doctors, I have got the stage where I cant even get the courage to make an appointment, luckily DS is doing it for me! Its so disapointing when you dont get the answers you want. Well done you for getting right back on the horse though and looking for another one. Dont waste those de-furred legsSmile

Inbetweener if no one has recommended it yet, get a copy of Taking Charge of Your Feritlity by Toni Weschler, I had an easy time with DS1 too and thought it would be the same second time round, this book has completely opened up a whole new world I never knew existed. Cant recommend it enough.

nice one on the exam batfink!!

MamaP Yep, I am off to see a new gyne today (number 4!) as it has been 15 weeks since ERPC and no AF Confused Sending you some good vibes for DH's swimmers Grin

I'm looking forward to my third massage in three days today!! Grin Grin Grin Wish I had more money to keep this up for longer... its heavenGrin

youremindmeofthebat · 14/10/2010 14:04

mummya good luck for today! hope the appointment goes well.

Blush for tipsy Mumsnetting. And just for you nickster a definition of teabagging for nickster, those of a nervous disposition look away now

appleblossoms · 14/10/2010 14:12

Afternoon my little chatter-monsters! Fanjo's, pool poo, teabagging and synchronised SWIing! hehehe Grin

Sorry jam about AF, nasty old bag!

izzy I need some of your motivation! 4 MILE run! flipping heck missie!

Good luck with gynae number 4 mummya hopefully this one will be able to work out where AF is.

PFF I work from home and DS isn't in nursery or anything, so often work in the evenings...and I was meeting with my US colleague last night, so works well.

Come on velvet, still REALLY hoping for some good news for you this week.

big hugs to all.

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 14/10/2010 14:24

mummya pleased you're enjoying the massages (who wouldn't?! Grin ), hope you get some answers later.

Well I went to the acupuncturist and it was lovely, very relaxing and got lots of advice too re diet and supplements etc, so just chilling out a bit this afternoon.

mamap hope you enjoyed westonbirt

MummyAbroad · 14/10/2010 14:38

facebook friends

I have just invited you to a candle lighting remembrance event, but I totally understand if you decide not to "out" yourself. xxxx

MamaPower · 14/10/2010 15:16

Lovely thanks Izzy it's always so beautiful this time of year and nice to spend some QT with the parentals Smile.

MA Hope this one can find some answers for you, fx sweets Smile

Batfink I opened that link up in my office, I hope no-one saw!! ha ha ha!

PS lots have you have asked about my wedding pic's...the Seychelles! On the beautiful Island of St Anne! We did a runner last November, hee hee!! I was sad my mum and dad weren't there but DH is an Aussie and we didn't want to upset his family so... anyway, that aside it was a beautiful day!

nickstermum · 14/10/2010 15:42

Is trying to work and dearly wishes bberry would stop fuckingflashing red at me and leave me in peace to watch jeremy kylework

ah ha ha MA i didnt realise your DS was so advanced he could make doctors appointments on your behalf...how old age 2? Grin Its funny, dont know about you but i have to really be careful about mixing up DH and DS on here! especially the things we talk about!

BATFINK or battybabe ,grim, is all i have to say to that..... ah ha i did have that at the back of my mind and DH came in to the kitchen just as i opened it.... swift closing down action!! wonders whether battybabe partakes in secrettipsy teabagging You are so funny !

mamap gorge pics! Glam model-esque cow beauty you! Amazing pics :) Sadly when i got hitched digi cams were not the done thing...will have to try and scan some perhaps when i can work my way round a scanner have time! You will make a very yummy mummy :) as will/do all my new MNchattermonsterbookfacechums

nickstermum · 14/10/2010 15:46

secrettipsyteabagger could you please tell us whether there is a ttc benefit to that action please?! and if so what is it?

Up there with:
brazillians
Grapefruits
pineapples
peesticking

oh and

teabagging!

Maybe thats where i am going wrong huh?

Velvetcu · 14/10/2010 17:41

Helloo

Just thought I would pop in quickly to say things have taken a slightly darker turn in the pants dept for me so I don't know if I will bother testing in the morning. Only problem is I've got a big party to go to so it will niggling at me if AF doesnt actually show up tomorrow.

Hope you are all good

KTRace · 14/10/2010 18:38

LadyB - my bleeding is still bright red and clots. It is 2 weeks since I had a scan which said my cervix was closed. Also, not helping me move on all this blood and sanitary towels. There must be a spike in demand where I live for them!

IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy · 14/10/2010 19:02

velvet (((hug))) hope it comes to nothing. If you've got a big night out I would POAS in the morning anyway just to make sure, otherwise you'll end up feeling guilty about it all night.

batfink Shock I so did not need to see that picture!! Grin

nicks I'm another one who got married before digi cameras came in -way back in 1999. God that makes me sound old! (I'm 34). Must get around to scanning them in at some point. Nothing quite as glamourous as mamap's though (mp your photos are gorge!!)

Wombat33 · 14/10/2010 19:03

Oh Velvet I'm still hoping for you...

KT that sounds horrid for you you poor thing. I really hope it stops soon x

I too opened the tb link at work. Opps. hope the IT profanity people don't catch up with me!!

PinkFondantFancy · 14/10/2010 19:07

aandr sorry shouldn't laugh about pool incident but it is v funny! Big respect for driving to Venice-I don't think I'd be brave enough to do that journey and it's only me and DH, and he's happy enough driving if I keep him fed and watered!

nicks here's hoping last night did the job!

ladybee I think I understand what you were doing with your chart, boo for temps going down. Reckon you should dare her with your tightie whities, like mrs nicks said, sooner she comes if she's coming, sooner next ov will be here. I hear you on the bump envy, same thing always happens to me too :( smug rubbing of bump in public should be illegal, it brings out all sorts of horrible feelings in me :(

Sorry about af jammy, wanna be my cycle buddy??

wombat ((())) for your sucky dr appt, that is terrible, why couldn't they have just done your swab, would have only made them 10 mins late. That is so not ok :(

inbetweener glad bleeding is almost finished and good news about dh being keen! How do you feel about trying again?

mummya how did you go at new gynae? Good work on candle lighting, will accept but not sure I'm strong enough to actually light one...

izzy glad acu went well!

batty are you in a big hangover mess today?? Hehe I need to check th link on teabagging when I get home!!

I know what wombat means about wanting to get your fun side back. I feel like I have been stuck in a pit of despair now since June and cried on the way home from work almost every night with no end in sight. When am I ever going to feel happy again?? Today I just feel like this ttc thing is hopeless and is never going to happen :( my best mate mmc'ed earlier this year and she's 9 weeks pg now and had a reassurance scan that went perfectly, and she texted me to tell me how it went and said 'v v unlikely that anything will go wrong now'. Of course I want everything to go perfectly for her but it made me cry because my scan at 8 weeks had heartbeat and everything but baby was too small and I didn't get a happy ending :( I guess I'm just jealous that I wasn't so lucky.

Anyway enough whingy whingy, reading your posts today has really cheered me up, thanks ladies!!

Velvetcu · 14/10/2010 19:13

I got married in 2000 and we dont have digital photos either!

mousebacon · 14/10/2010 19:46

Hi ladies, I had to go back to the hospital today as my pg test is still showing a feint positive. I just thought they'd say give it a couple more days as the tests are definately geting lighter but oh no, was whisked in for a scan, retained products found and booked in for an ERPC on Saturday.

I was just wondering if anyone could share their experience of ERPC with me. I'm not bleeding anymore but have been advised that I may bleed and/or have some pain afterwards.

I like to know what I'm letting myself in for so tell it like it is. Thanks in advance, don't know how I'd have coped without MN in the last few days. Smile

Oh, the MC was 10 days ago and I was 11+ weeks if that makes any difference. xx

LadyBee · 14/10/2010 19:53

Hi mousebacon I've posted a description of my ERPC before, hang on

here it is:

"I was asked to go to hospital at 7AM, and not to eat or drink anything from the 10PM the previous day. After 'checking in' they directed me to the ward where I'd be looked after.

The nurse who was overseeing my care greeted me and showed me to my bed and asked me to wait for a healthcare assistant. The HCA brought me a hospital gown, helped me tie it up and then measured my legs for those compression stockings, gave me a bag to put my belongings in. Then there was a bit of a wait before the nurse came through to explain what would happen and to give me a vaginal pessary which softens and opens the cervix a little. She gave me the choice of inserting it myself or having her do it.

Then there were questions about allergies, teeth, make-up etc which were repeated by the anaesthetist who came to visit.
Then more waiting.

Then I was told they were ready for me, so I lay down and they wheeled me into the theatre area, or rather a room just outside the theatre where the anaesthetists were waiting. They put a canula in my hand (which was probably the most difficult thing about the whole process as my veins weren't easy to find), fixed up a drip and then she told me they were going give me the anaesthetic and would count backwards from 10. I think she got to 7 and I was out.

Next thing I was dreaming and then woke up with a bit of a start. There was recovery nurse next to me and I was on a blood pressure monitor. My throat hurt and that was the first thing I said to the nurse, she said it was from the breathing tube they'd put in while I was under. I was bit confused and just asked her whether it was over, she said yes and I cried a bit then - I'd been holding myself together for a week to deal with it all so there was a release. The nurse was very warm and kind. I felt very cold and shivery but not sore, so they tucked me up with more blankets and then I was wheeled back to the ward I'd come from.

There the HCA monitored my blood pressure, and temperature, they checked how much I was bleeding and generally kept me under observation for a while. My blood pressure was low, so I had several bags of fluid through the drip to try to push it up. They gave me some oral painkillers and I had a bit of cramping but nothing more than mild period pain.

After I'd gone to the toilet they were able to discharge me, and they sent me home with diclofenic as a painkiller.
I was home by about 3pm. I read a lot and listened to my ipod. I had bleeding like a long period but no pain (took one paracetamol the next day) afterwards.

That's it. I hope this description doesn't stir up bad memories for people - I actually think of this as a relatively positive experience. My care was really sensitive, and physically quite easy, which I think made the emotional recovery easier."

youremindmeofthebat · 14/10/2010 19:56

just a quick one, mouse, from my phone. Erpc fine, i didnt have any pain whatsoever afterwards, a little tender downstairs for a couple hours but no achy pains, i think others can have period style pains for a day or two, quite managable. My bleeding afterwards was light, and like a wound, rather than a period iyswim. Hope that helps, its really fine, the worst bit is getting the canula in, and even thats not so bad. Good luck, you'll be fine.

mousebacon · 14/10/2010 20:00

Wow, thank you so, so much for that LadyBee that's a great help. It was upsetting listening to all the risks today and I think I got myself a bit worked up. I really didn't think it would come to this after all the stuff that I've already lost IYSWIM. Thanks again xx

mousebacon · 14/10/2010 20:02

thanks youremindmeofthebat sorry, x-posted! x

Velvetcu · 14/10/2010 20:03

Hi mouse - everyone else has postive stories about ERPC but mine was a little less so - let me know if you want to know about it otherwise don't worry, it will all be fine :)

mousebacon · 14/10/2010 20:07

Er.. I think I'll skip it for now but if you find me in here in a few days sounding a bit dazed then fill me in. I even checked that it wouldn't be the surgeons first time!