Shelleylou I'm so glad to hear I didn't offend you, must admit I was worried as I hate upsetting people so much. Sorry to hear about you and (d)h I hope you're doing ok. The problem is it's so difficult to think about anything but when you want another dc. Pregnant women and newborns seem to be everywhere and there's no escape!! I was looking at a photo of my ds when he was a day old and can't believe how long ago it seems since he was that tiny yet it's only 2 years!! It's made me even broodier now (if that's even possible!!).
Munki I hope you're ok. It's still possible it's not a mc and just af. I recently had every symptom possible and was sure I was pregnant but kept getting bfns so didn't know what was going on. In the end I had a 70+ day cycle even though I'm normally pretty regular at 28-31 days. If you really want to know for sure you can still do a test as you still get a bfp upto about a week after a mc from left over hormones. I hope it was just af playing stupid games with you. If you ever need to 'talk' I'm here (well apart from when I'm on holiday!!) as I've had 7 mcs and 1 ridiculous cycle so understand what you must be going through.
PippaandPolly It sounds promising especially the extreme tiredness. When I was pregnant with ds I could sleep 16 hours a day if I wanted I was that tired. It's because your heart's working extra hard to pump around the extra blood for the baby and it takes 12 weeks to regulate. That's why the tiredness goes after week 12. I know what you mean about feeling despondent about ttc, it's so hard when you're not successful first month. Once af arrives a month seems such a long time before you either get your bfp or af arrives! And as I said before babies are everywhere when you're ttc, normally you don't take much notice but when you want one they seem to multiply and everyone, except you, has one or are pregnant!! Such an unfair world. 
I went to the hospital mc clinic on Monday and got some great news. Genetic tests came back, for dh and I, completely clear. Hormone tests were very good and showed I was ovulating. Long and short of it is there's no reason why we shouldn't try for a baby and be successful. The only snag is she's still worried about my health (with the bloody tumours!!) and said it's possible my health could deteriorate even though it was lots better when I had ds. I think I've just ovulated so we're trying to find time/energy to ttc but have so much going on that it's a case of wham bam, thanks, turn over go to sleep!! 
Hardly romance of the century!! I've just got a feeling that we're going to be successful this month but I don't know why. Normally I hope we are and try to convince myself I'm sure we will but this feels different. I don't know why but there's some sort of gut feeling that's telling me we'll either find out we're pregnant in Cuba or concieve out there!!
I've got so much to do before we go on holiday but not enough time. We've got hospital appts and loads of other bits to do tomorrow plus I need to pack too as won't have chance Friday and don't want to do it on Sat as we're leaving at lunchtime. Mind you I always say the same but it always ends up a rush!! It's not only my packing I have to do but dh, ds and mum's too. We always mix our cases up as that way if one gets delayed or lost it's not as big of a problem as it would be if it was one persons entire case. Bit worried about the weight though as Thomas Cook only give a measly 15kg hold luggage allowance and 5kg hand luggage!! Normally it's 20kg + 10kg. It makes a lot of difference when you have to take 2 weeks supplies of nappies etc!! Plus their max hand luggage size is really tiny compared to other airlines! We wanted to take extra childrens clothes, toiletries etc etc for the staff and their families as it's such a poor country but will need the whole allowance ourselves We'll just have to leave some of our used clothes instead which I'm sure they'll be greatful for.
Gosh don't I waffle on?!?! 
I won't be posting for 24 hours as it's the 2nd anniversary of my wonderful dad's very sudden and unexpected passing today (Thurs). It was such an awful time as I had a 4 week old baby (had been in hospital for 3 weeks) and dad never got to hold him. Miss him so much and know he would've loved ds's cheeky nature!!
RIP DAD, LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH xxxxx