i want to try for baby no2 dp doesnt best ways round this without it causing problems??

[jbells]

anyone been in a similar situation?

You wait until he's ready.

Come and join us on our thread "The Bus Stop - Waiting to TTC (part 3)", where you will find we are nearly all in the same boat!

Doesn't he want a second child at all or just not now?
How old is your child?

hey amanda i have joined the thread :)

compo, my dd is 16 months i have always sed since b4 we had kids that i didnt want more than a 2-3 year age gap btween having first and 2nd, dp used to want 3 then afta first one think the reality of it being hard work hit home and now he doesnt even listen to me when i talk bout having more lol