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TTC after a miscarriage - ***Lets have some more BFP's***

746 replies

Diddle · 25/08/2005 13:27

Here we go ladies, couldn't wait for a couple of days have started one already.

Lets make this thread a lucky one and make sure we al graduate from it.

OP posts:
CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 05/09/2005 19:40

((((((((Peepee))))))))
so sorry

xxx

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 05/09/2005 19:45

Well girls I am on cd 9 so bd will commence shortly.

Maddyd was thinking of you today as I think we are about the same cycle wise? Hopefully this month will be our month but I only have this week to grab dh as he is taking parents to Skegness on Sat morn and wont be back to Mon aft....Hopefully that will be enough time as last month was on 27 days.

Sorry if I missed this afternoons chat.I can only get on after 7.00 as I have a toddler who likes to jump up and down on my knee as soon as I log on demanding CBeebies to be put on!

Hoping that everyone is ok this evening.All that talk about food has made me hungry and I have only had a piece of toast today.Must grab something soon...

Coathanger · 05/09/2005 21:02

Has anyone heard from peepee today?

ChoccieP - how can you survive on a piece of toast !!

HumphreysCorner · 05/09/2005 21:08

Yuk-hate jaffa cakes
Mmmmmm-love cheese

Hoping to BD tonight and send some men in-lol! (If DH can tear himself away from his wreck of a bike).

Nighty night
xx

Coathanger · 05/09/2005 21:11

Night HC, happy BDing LOL at sending men in! Got picture of little swimmers with soldier helmets on and sub-machine guns in my head now!!

Locks · 05/09/2005 21:24

Peepee, I just popped over to see if there was any news and I was so sad to hear of your loss Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you and had been hoping for the best.

Coathanger · 05/09/2005 21:46

Well, I'm off to bed now. Got to be up bright and breezy tomorrow. DS3 first morning at nursery tomorrow Boo-Hoo

Night night all, hope you all get a good nights sleep. Sweet dreams xxx

MrsEvs · 06/09/2005 07:09

Oh peepee, I am so, so sorry. We are all thinking of you. Don't give up - my Mum had 5 or 6 m/cs AND an ectopic pregnancy before succuessfully carrying me to term aged 41 - all 10lbs 8 and 24 inches of me!!! So she always says, anything is possible

Coathanger · 06/09/2005 08:00

Morning all!

Very emotional morning for me - DS3 is off to nursery for the first time He's had his brekkie with his big brothers and has got his litle bag all packed up. Oh, I'm so sad, my ikkle boy is getting all grown up

HellKat · 06/09/2005 09:01

Morning all!
CH- Awwwww bless him! My eldest is just off now. They start at 9.30 this morning. He's all excited because he's yr 10 now!
LL- Any news? Did you decide to test?

Lottielou · 06/09/2005 09:16

Morning Ladies!
Well i didn't decide to test but i did end up going to the doctors. My GP suggested that he test to find out for sure but i declined. He seemed to think that there was quite a big possibilty that i am havin a M/C, he examined my tummy and said it felt quite hard and wow it hurt, he pressed so deeply. I have decided that ignorance is bliss. The Doc said it was ok as long as i wasn't experiencing a very big blood loss. Which now i'm not so i will just have to ride it out.
Thanks for all your support yesterdat, i really appreciate it. Where would i be without you!
I am actually feeling ok today, i have convinced myself that it is just an AF and i will be back to normal as soon as i stop bleeding! The Doc gave me the ok as long as i felt ready to just keep trying! So onwards and upwards!
How are you all this morning? Lovely day here in the Midlands xx

HellKat · 06/09/2005 09:27

LL- So sorry hun {{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}. Hopefully next month will be your month.
I'm starting to think Mine was an early mc too last month but not worrying too much about it. Dp's convinced it was. Here's to lots of bd for all .

maddyd · 06/09/2005 09:32

Ahhh Lottie do you really think it is, how awfull for you. Did you get a pos result then, i must have misssed all this as been so busy. Sorry Honey i hope your ok. Maybe it is just a heavy af. If you concieved and didnt implant then its very likely its a missed miscarriage. I had one of those a few months back remember and af is a bit cotty and heavy. I had no pain though. Take Care, i hope your ok, i do worry and think about you and Diddle.

Talking of belly ache i am so sore and tender to touch. My c section scar hurts which has happened before and i thought i was pg but seen as im only cd10 it must be ov pains. Dont know if belly hurts because of ov or too much sex.

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 06/09/2005 09:36

Morning girls

Well its grim up north.Grey and wet in Manchester so just peeked at the Lanzarote webcam as we are off there in just over four weeks, to look at the sunshine and cheer myself up.

On cd 10 so bd will commence later...

Coathanger.Since being very sick in both my pregnancies I seem to eat less these days especially in the first part of the day as thats when I was most sick. Also having a toddler I seem to be always busy so dont eat all day then realise at teatime and stuff myself! Not good for the digestion I know.I am the lightest I have been in 4 years at just under 11 stone (I am 5'9" so not bad but still wobbly in places )

Picked up the new ASDA mag yesterday.There are some lovely new clothes.Feel a spending spree coming on........

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 06/09/2005 09:38

Maddyd

Our cycles are in tune again!!
Lets hope this is the month for us !

Coathanger · 06/09/2005 09:42

Hi LL - BIGGEST {{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}} in the world to you , Hun. I'm glad you went to the docs. Promise us you will look after yourself and, although you are right to just get on with things, please take it easy. Sorry I wasn't that much help last night. The way my mind works I would have had to test. I was wrong to suggest you should too. I'm sorry I'm glad you are ok this morning.

DS3 has gone off to nursery I stayed a little while and he was fine as I left the room he was in but I heard him crying as I left the building. Am I a bad mother? How could I leave him with a bunch of strangers and ignore him crying! I just wanted to run back and whisk him away. Arrgghh, why do I feel so bad??

Coathanger · 06/09/2005 09:43

Where in Lanzarote are you staying Choccie?

Lottielou · 06/09/2005 09:44

Maddyd - I didn't test i couldn't face it! I was late (well sort of my AF's are all over the place) and this was the only month that i didn;t test. I was going to wait till CD 45 before i did a test. Really glad i didn't. I'm not going to test either, i really dont want to know. I will just get on with it!

I am praying that next month will be my turn (along with Diddle, we're convinced we will get our BFP's together, thing have been too uncanny between us, her AF arrives on Friday, mine on Saturday!LOL) I really hope it is!

How are you today maddyd? Poor you ur tummy hurting! Are you at work today? x

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 06/09/2005 09:46

Playa Blanca

We have been going for 12 years but always stay in Puerto Del Carmen. We fancied a change and PB seems more geared up for families. We are taking my nieces who are 4 and 6.They love my dd and play well together.Also my dad.We have got a three bed villa so will be chaos for me but I am still looking forward to it!!

Have you been?

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 06/09/2005 09:47

LL

My cycle has been all over the place too since loosing Philippa.Its only this month that it has gone back to the 27/28 days.Hoping thats a sign but it might go back to 35 next time!!

Thinking of you
xxxx

Lottielou · 06/09/2005 09:48

Coathanger - Morning Hun! Please dont say sorry for suggesting that i test. I welcommed all suggestions of what to do, i was in a real state of confusion y'day and you really helped. Please dont say sorry i'm really thankful for you being here y'day afternoon!
I will take it easy i promise, i was actually in bed at 9.15 last night!
Did anyone watch that Marian, Again on ITV1. It was very good, second part tonight! I woke up thinkning bout it! Lol

Lottielou · 06/09/2005 09:53

Chocolatepeanut - It is so awful isn't it having your cycles all over the place, i cant stand not knowing where i am from one month to the next!
This month tho i am going to use OPK's to try and pin point things better and have a better idea of where i am at! Well thats the plan at the moment anyway!
Of you going to get some sun. We're hoping to go away in Oct but things are a bit iffy with my dads health at the moment so if we go it will be a very last minute venture!
x

Coathanger · 06/09/2005 09:53

Went to Costa Teguise in April. Was lovely. PIL go have been every year for past 12 years and love it. They took us. Hope you have a fab time, will count down days with you

LL- Hope you and Diddle get your BFPs together. Would be great if you all get BFP this time round. Really want you all to be lucky xx Perhaps then you can rub some of your luck on me when its my turn.

Lottielou · 06/09/2005 09:56

Coathanger - I would be the happiest person in the entire world of this was the month for us all! The next batch of BFP's will be along soon and i so hope and pray that it is us!!!
Please please please make it us!!!!

And of course we will rub the luck onto you should we get our BFP's! I'm started to think really positive now! (but not thinking about it obsessivley Sigh)

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 06/09/2005 09:57

Looking forward to hols for sure but when I get back I go back to work.....

after 6 months off not looking forward to it and so want to be pregnant by the time I go back,would make it so much easier.