no more dithering #3

[Jemz]

after reading many of the threads on here, weeks of feeling that aching for another and feeling jealous of any bump or baby that goes by (they seem 2 b everywhere), thinking of money my 4yr old and 2 1/2 yr old, have finally decided 2 stop dithering and start ttc!! would love to hear from anyone else who has decided to take the plunge!

hi Jemz, I have DS 3.5yo and DD 15mo, and am yearning for another, even though am struggling balancing the 2 now I'm back at work, and we're so skint it's untrue, but the feeling of wanting a third just won't go away for me. We've not decided yet whether or not to go for it, but just wanted to say good luck! - how old are you and how old are your DCs? - am 38, so we haven't really got that much time on our hands to decide.

reread your post, you say how old your DCs are in it already!

thats cool. this bit may shock u-im only 24, bt my ot is 42 which is 1 reason 4 wanting to just go 4 it!! sounds dodgy like something from a magazine, bt we'd worked 2gether 4 a few years both seeing other ppl, we've been married 4 years and have a house 2gether and r both in management.-which is good 4 kids. i think every1 seems 2 always make money stretch, may just mean we dont buy each other pressies etc but im sure we can live wiht that!!
not sure y i just told u all that but hey ho.
just as for you, that feeling just wont go away, like if we didnt something would b missing and would always b wondering 'what if' . good luck with ur decision!!!!!