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What do you think?

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tummytickler · 23/07/2010 09:47

I am currently on cd39, and have had 3 bfn's this week, the last one yesterday on cd38

I am so miserable. I used to have 28 day cycles, but since my miscarriage in January they have been 35, with spotting from cd33 (but i dont count it as af).

I am now on cd39, have given up testing as will empty my bank account if not careful.

Why wont af come, do i have any chance that i might be pg, or am i kidding myself??

I just want af to come so i can get on with next cycle. or a BFP, obviously!

So, what do you think?
Why won't af come?

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ljg72 · 23/07/2010 10:08

Sorry your feeling so down...haven't really got any answers to your post, but just wanted to add that I know how you kinda feel.

My cycles have gone from being 28 to anything up to 35 since my mc...which is obviously torture whilst ttc!!!!.

sending hugs X

nancy10 · 23/07/2010 11:10

I had a miscarriage at the end of April. My first af was really light and I couldn't really tell what it was. My 2nd af came exactly 28 days later and that was normal. Now I'm on cycle day 37 and since cd 33 have had spotting. It's been mainly brown with a tiny bit of red and thats it. I haven't had to use anything because it's only noticeable when I wee. Have also had BFN. This morning I've noticed that I have a lot of ewcm, so am wondering if I'm ovulating really late. I was so excited on Monday when I thought it was my period and I'm praying my cycle isn't all messed up!

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tummytickler · 23/07/2010 23:06

Sorry you are both going through it too, it is so frustrating isn't it?
I caved and tested again today, but got another BFN.
I just want my old 28 day cycles back, so I know where I am.
It was so easy to get pg with other dc, I wonder what is wrong with me
Nancy - Have you been treating it like late ovulation? Maybe if you do a test in 2 weeks you will get a BFP.
ljg72 - when did you miscarry? I wonder if they will go back to normal in time?

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nancy10 · 24/07/2010 10:14

I think the spotting has stopped, so maybe it was a light period. The length of time it went on for is the normal length my period would be. I'm going to test in a week or so and see. I haven't really got a clue what is going on

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