This is where I'm aiming to be. I get one ride on this merry-go-round, I intend to enjoy it! I will try my best to be the least impactful I can be (avoid flying, cycle as much as possible, vote carefully, think green when shopping for energy, internet or pretty much anything else, my kids wore second hand reusable nappies, 99% of our clothes are second hand, we reduce and reuse as much as possible, recycle too, we rarely eat meat etc, we're open to learning, evolving and realising when we made mistakes) but beyond that it's too big of a problem to fall on my individual shoulders. It's not fair it should keep me up at night or totally stop me enjoying my own existence.
I read somewhere the world needs 80% of humans trying their best imperfectly rather than 20% doing everything perfectly. That took the pressure off. It can be overwhelming if you let it, and it's pointless because individuals aren't going to fix this.
So, am working on raising kids who are healthy and happy. They are currently content with second hand gifts, charity shop clothes, local camping holidays, old dumb phones rather than the newest handsets, reused paper and cloth decorations at birthdays, candles which have been lit once, being careful with water, respecting energy, looking after our things, having reusable pass the parcel bags, a birthday display with reusable boxes rather than everything gift wrapped etc. It is different to my childhood? Absolutely. Do I sometimes feel they're missing out? Sincerely! Do they know any different? No!! As a kid I didn't get sad that I didn't have the same playing out freedom my mum had in the 60s and 70s. Kinda looking at it like that.