address the card as if its from you even if its a friend/relative of DH's or the chidrens?
I do.
IE. To DP's parents I address the card to their names (just couldnt write Mum and Dad as its clealy my writing not DH's!) and I always sign from 2.4, Mr2.4 and kids (rather than DH first even to his friends lol)
I also always sign DS2s name as his nickname which I prefer to use even though DH doesnt lol
(perk of being the chief card writer )