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Christmas run up older children

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MagicThanks · 13/09/2026 09:58

We are officially out of the Santa visit era.
The run up used to be full of things like this for younger kids, but they are now 10 and 8 and things have shifted. Too old for Santa and not interested in panto.

Just wondering what kind of events and activities your family enjoy with older primary/pre-teens?

We have booked Kew Gardens light trail and will stay overnight and are going to Hampton Court Palace the next day.

Im also going to see A Christmas Carol with DD and MiL.

I think we’ll still go to our local garden center which is amazing at Christmas and pick out a new ornament each. We also love walking the dog after dark to look at the lights on houses.

What will you get up to with slightly older children?

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tmom3 · 13/09/2026 19:16

I like to do lots of Christmas activities with my children who are of a similar age. We definitely splurge on Christmas experiences rather than gifts, so they make memories rather than just accumulating clutter. Things we’ve done over the years (not all the same year!)

Winter Wonderland Hyde Park: we always go on a weekday morning. The children love it. We tend to do some of the rides, the ice skating and the ice sculptures. A little pricey but we go when it opens, leave around 3/4- just as it’s starting to get busy. We then go for a walk down regent street and Oxford street and they have a look at all the Christmas lights.

Watercress Line railway: they do an event where the train is all decked out in lights and you sing Christmas songs. It lasts a couple of hours and is really lovely and atmospheric.

Light trail: There are various different ones, just nice to soak in the atmosphere and toast marshmallows etc

Center Parcs: again, very atmospheric, can do as little or as much as you want. We paid for a Christmas tree in the lodge and lit the real fire and it was so Christmassy.

Pottery: Go to a pottery studio and paint Christmas ornaments. We have done various Christmas ornaments including a plate for Father Christmas, tree ornaments, larger family decorations.

Theme parks: Chessington/Legoland/Paultons all do Christmas events.

Christmas tree farm: we’ve gone and cut down our own tree. Was really lovely and the children picked a small one each for their rooms.

Panto: I think they sound the perfect age for the panto, my children absolutely love it and it’s become an annual tradition.

Baking: we do home made mince pies every year, the house smells lovely and we drop some off to family with their Christmas presents.

Disneyland: in my opinion the best time of year to go in my
opinion, but not on Christmas Day- it’s too busy and just like any other day.

Drive around and grab a hot chocolate from Costa/starbucks drive thru. Put Christmas music on and admire all of the Christmas lights people have put on the outside of their houses.

Winchester Christmas Market: I don’t really rate it to be honest. Went once and was disappointed, went a second time and still didn’t. Rammed, overpriced stuff and was done in an hour.

Cinema: go and see a Christmas film, go to a slightly later showing and let the kids go in their PJs, with blankets etc.

I might think of other things but that’s the main things over the years. Done Lapland UK as well as Fortnum and Mason Christmas stories with Father Christmas and Hamleys Father Christmas but they would be too old for those now. I think the only thing I haven’t done that I would like to do is perhaps the Polar Express.

tmom3 · 13/09/2026 19:18

We’ve also done the Christmas gingerbread houses, we invited both sets of parents round and they paired up with the DC and we made it into a little competition, we got some picky bits from M&S and both the kids and grandparents really enjoyed it.

ExquisitelyDecorating · 13/09/2026 19:25

tmom3 · 13/09/2026 19:16

I like to do lots of Christmas activities with my children who are of a similar age. We definitely splurge on Christmas experiences rather than gifts, so they make memories rather than just accumulating clutter. Things we’ve done over the years (not all the same year!)

Winter Wonderland Hyde Park: we always go on a weekday morning. The children love it. We tend to do some of the rides, the ice skating and the ice sculptures. A little pricey but we go when it opens, leave around 3/4- just as it’s starting to get busy. We then go for a walk down regent street and Oxford street and they have a look at all the Christmas lights.

Watercress Line railway: they do an event where the train is all decked out in lights and you sing Christmas songs. It lasts a couple of hours and is really lovely and atmospheric.

Light trail: There are various different ones, just nice to soak in the atmosphere and toast marshmallows etc

Center Parcs: again, very atmospheric, can do as little or as much as you want. We paid for a Christmas tree in the lodge and lit the real fire and it was so Christmassy.

Pottery: Go to a pottery studio and paint Christmas ornaments. We have done various Christmas ornaments including a plate for Father Christmas, tree ornaments, larger family decorations.

Theme parks: Chessington/Legoland/Paultons all do Christmas events.

Christmas tree farm: we’ve gone and cut down our own tree. Was really lovely and the children picked a small one each for their rooms.

Panto: I think they sound the perfect age for the panto, my children absolutely love it and it’s become an annual tradition.

Baking: we do home made mince pies every year, the house smells lovely and we drop some off to family with their Christmas presents.

Disneyland: in my opinion the best time of year to go in my
opinion, but not on Christmas Day- it’s too busy and just like any other day.

Drive around and grab a hot chocolate from Costa/starbucks drive thru. Put Christmas music on and admire all of the Christmas lights people have put on the outside of their houses.

Winchester Christmas Market: I don’t really rate it to be honest. Went once and was disappointed, went a second time and still didn’t. Rammed, overpriced stuff and was done in an hour.

Cinema: go and see a Christmas film, go to a slightly later showing and let the kids go in their PJs, with blankets etc.

I might think of other things but that’s the main things over the years. Done Lapland UK as well as Fortnum and Mason Christmas stories with Father Christmas and Hamleys Father Christmas but they would be too old for those now. I think the only thing I haven’t done that I would like to do is perhaps the Polar Express.

Yes, an hour or two is long enough at Winchester, but it isn’t rammed in the early evenings, we don’t generally buy anything much, just have a drink and wander around, it is very atmospheric. The DCS used to like the skating in the middle of the market but they’ve stopped having a rink now.

The Watercress Line is a good call - we’ve never been on it (it only started when ours were 14 and 16 and they have never fancied it) but we love going to one pf the places where you can watch it go by.

MagicThanks · 13/09/2026 19:41

ExquisitelyDecorating · 13/09/2026 18:54

We’ve been going to Winchester Christmas market with ours (or separately now they are old enough to go without us) since they were younger than yours. Go after dark for extra atmosphere and fewer people. Park and ride is straightforward and you can walk in from one of them as it’s only a mile or so.

Cutting your own tree at a Christmas tree farm.

Panto - only one of ours likes it so I just go with her and the others don’t bother, keeps the cost down. In fact a lot of our family life is like this due to ND, so for several of the things mentioned only one DC would enjoy them, so breakfast out, afternoon tea, movies ar out unless we split).

Open topped bus tour of the West End lights in London was a big hit but SO cold.

Oh yes we did the open top bus Christmas lights thing last year and really liked it

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MagicThanks · 13/09/2026 19:43

Totally nicking gingerbread house day

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SussexLass87 · 13/09/2026 20:58

MagicThanks · 13/09/2026 19:43

Totally nicking gingerbread house day

Love this!

Kickinthenostalgia · 13/09/2026 23:32

Mine have never been into the panto thing, we used to do ice staking in Brighton but now that gets overly busy. Tbh my dc 14 & 18 just love watching the movies, looking at lights when we drive some where, the music, all the seasonal food. We have a massive lights display at our house so they love when people stop to look. They do like going to the light shows/trails. That’s not my thing so DP usually takes them to that. Something they can do together, where as I’m the movie freak so they love when we do the Christmas movie advent. I still them my version of a Christmas Eve box, new Xmas pjs, bath bomb, hot chocolate ( milkshake for dd as she’s not a fan of hot chocolate) chocolate coins and dd gets a Christmas Ty and DS used to get a roblox voucher but now I’ll buy him a book he wants .

Ifeeltheneedtheneedforcoffee · 14/09/2026 14:53

Im laughing to myself at some random person in sales wondering why the sales of gingerbread house kits have risen this year 😂

SussexLass87 · 14/09/2026 16:44

Ifeeltheneedtheneedforcoffee · 14/09/2026 14:53

Im laughing to myself at some random person in sales wondering why the sales of gingerbread house kits have risen this year 😂

🤣🤣

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