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Anyone else alone for Christmas?

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NordicBerry38 · 07/12/2025 08:37

I’m alone for Christmas, can’t afford to go away. Is anyone else in the same situation?

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333FionaG · 07/12/2025 09:14

Are you completely alone with no family or friends around?

RoamingToaster · 07/12/2025 09:18

There are a few other threads here. You’re not the only one

GentleSheep · 07/12/2025 09:22

Yes, other half will be away so I'm here on my tod. Absolutely fine, not the first time I've had to fly solo. I have no other family so will spend it with my kitty!

JifNtGif · 07/12/2025 09:59

NordicBerry38 · 07/12/2025 08:37

I’m alone for Christmas, can’t afford to go away. Is anyone else in the same situation?

Even worse. Working

Cleo65 · 07/12/2025 10:08

I would love to be alone - everyone is different of course, but I've had so many disappointing Christmas's that I plan to stick to my guns next year & opt out of Christmas day.
I will happily engage in the run up - but I won't be engaging in the actual day. I live alone & find it all too much.
Time to be true to myself.

NordicBerry38 · 07/12/2025 10:30

333FionaG · 07/12/2025 09:14

Are you completely alone with no family or friends around?

Yes, completely alone

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CandyCaneKisses · 07/12/2025 10:33

There’s always lots of ‘alone at Christmas’ type threads so you’ll find lots of people in the same position who share their plans. They usually sound like they have a great day planned.

While it’s not the same it may just be me and DD this year as sometimes spending it with family can spoil the day.

Goditsmemargaret · 07/12/2025 11:00

Do you have any ideas OP of what you would like to do with the day that we could help you build on?

FiercelyFree · 07/12/2025 11:04

This will be my seventh Christmas alone. I allow myself a day of doing exactly what I want with no guilt for being lazy! Breakfast in bed with my three cats, walk in the park, coffee, reading, TV, long bath. I plan a lovely meal and just relax. So much less stressful that when I was married!

Frenchfemme · 07/12/2025 11:33

I am completely alone, apart from my cat. Parents both dead, siblings in another country, husband in a care facility following a stroke. I have very limited mobility due to arthritis. Just getting round to decorating my tree - even though there is no one but me to see it I deserve joyful rituals.

Netcurtainnelly · 07/12/2025 22:05

Frenchfemme · 07/12/2025 11:33

I am completely alone, apart from my cat. Parents both dead, siblings in another country, husband in a care facility following a stroke. I have very limited mobility due to arthritis. Just getting round to decorating my tree - even though there is no one but me to see it I deserve joyful rituals.

Wouldn't you be going to the home on xmas day?

suburberphobe · 16/12/2025 00:30

Wouldn't you be going to the home on xmas day?

She has limited mobility @Netcurtainnelly

Friendlygingercat · 16/12/2025 01:51

Im self employed so I close my online shops and put on the autoresponder. From Christmas Eve to the day after New Years Day I dont even check emails. I have no special plans for any of the days. A relative will come over and bring dinner one of the days and we will share a bottle of wine. Thats the only person I will probably see overr the whole period. For the rest I just do exactly what I like. Probably watching a bit of Netflix or similar, sleeping in and treating myself to the off glass of Baileys. I dont normally drink.

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