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Maria02 · 30/11/2025 18:21

Hi all.i have an 8 years old son. He will be 9 on 2nd January.he still excitedly believes in Santa and elves.he believes everything about elves when I am moving them middle of the night!is this normal for his age to completely believe this magic or should I tell him the truth?

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TeenToTwenties · 30/11/2025 18:23

Don't tell him the truth at this time of year.
If you want to tell him, say it in the spring or summer.

Maria02 · 30/11/2025 18:42

TeenToTwenties · 30/11/2025 18:23

Don't tell him the truth at this time of year.
If you want to tell him, say it in the spring or summer.

Yes. That make sense

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Marble10 · 30/11/2025 18:43

Why would you tell him?! Realistically by the age of 11 he will know anyway. Keep the magic for this last year or 2!

Maria02 · 30/11/2025 18:55

Marble10 · 30/11/2025 18:43

Why would you tell him?! Realistically by the age of 11 he will know anyway. Keep the magic for this last year or 2!

I just thought he is old enough to understand the truth.dont want he looks fool in front of his classmates if they don’t believe in Santa and elves.

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HarryVanderspeigle · 30/11/2025 20:43

He's not going to look like a fool in front of 8 year olds, plenty of them will still believe.

MrsT84 · 30/11/2025 20:48

My 10 year old son is excited for our elves to return and I cant tell if he is doing it to keep the magic alive for his 3 year old sister, or if he actually still believes. He also hasn't had the chat about Santa, but wasn't bothered that I took his sister to see him at the local church yesterday. I will keep it going for as long as it brings a smile to his and my daughter's faces.

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