Presents from in-laws to spouses

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I'm just wondering how other families do presents from in-laws to spouses (ie; from your Parents to you and your partner / spouse, or from you to your children and their partners)?

Is it a similar value gift for each, a joint gift, a bit more for the 'child' than the partner or much more for the 'child' and a token for their partner?

Talking about long-term partners and married couples rather than a casual / new boyfriend or girlfriend.

Mine and DH's parents each have wildly opposing approaches to this and I'm wondering which (if either) is the norm!

Thanks

PILs seem to spend the same on DH and on me - sometimes I actually think they spend a bit more on me! DF used to spend a lot more on me before he died.

My parents and my in-laws treat everyone the same, I wouldn't be upset if my in-laws spent more on their son at all.

I give my DIL the same amount of money as I do my son, my son probably gets more stocking fillers.

My ILs buy us a joint gift- usually something practical eg kitchen stuff (we got a veg steamer this year) or something we can use together like a board game. MIL also does us each a stocking of little bits and bobs.
My parents aren’t with us anymore but used to buy us separate gifts of roughly the same value.