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What do you put in 1st December boxes vs Christmas Eve boxes?

439 replies

ChristmasIsComing2023 · 03/10/2023 21:35

What do you put in 1st December boxes vs Christmas Eve boxes??

OP posts:
Needmorelego · 04/10/2023 10:55

@CallieQ but some things need to be given before actual Christmas Day. There's no point giving a child a craft kit to make decorations for the tree on Christmas Day - when will they get chance to make it?
Part of Advent is preparing for Christmas Day. People do food prep before the actual day - what's wrong with buying your child a Christmas themed book to read the day before? (which might keep them quiet while you do the food prep 😂)

MrsBobo · 04/10/2023 10:55

@CallieQ Alot of people I know allow their children to open one present on Chirstmas Eve. My husbands grandparents used to let my MIL do too this apparently. I don't as they have their Christmas Eve boxes instead. What's the problem?

Needmorelego · 04/10/2023 10:56

@CallieQ I don't think anyone has been talking about "presents". Just Christmas themed things.

Neekoh · 04/10/2023 11:01

Haven't RTFT so cancel the cheque and so on...

I wouldn't have both. I'd probably stick to a Christmas Eve box and in it would be simple things such as new pyjamas, a new book to read before bed, The plate and mug for Father Christmases mince pie and drink/carrots for the reindeer or whatever it is you might want to do, plus stockings to hang up and then a little snack for the child/ren.

Neekoh · 04/10/2023 11:03

And if I were doing a Dec 1st box I'd include pyjamas, bedding if you're going to do it, a crafts/activities advent calendar of some kind, Christmas mug and plate for each child, and a festive snack. Maybe also a little pile of Christmas/winter themed books.

AliasGrape · 04/10/2023 11:09

Christ, after the first 3 or so pages of replies not answering the question but just having to point out how awful they find the very idea because it’s so terribly consumerist don’t you know, you wouldn’t think anyone else would feel the need to repeat basically the same thing, but people just can’t help themselves can they?

I don’t think of it as a ‘Dec 1st box’ exactly, but Christmas starts in our house on 1st December. Yes I know it’s not the old fashioned view of 12 days of Christmas etc, but it’s how we like to do it so there we are. I do in fact have a huge box in the garage that is full of Christmassy stuff and we will get it out at beginning of December so essentially it’s a Dec 1st box. It contains:

—lots and lots of Christmas or winter themed picture/ story books - most of these I’ve had from my teaching days, and others I’ve picked up in charity shops since DD was born. The last couple of years I’ve done a book advent calendar type thing, wrapping one up for each day in December to open and read together. The first year it was a big hit, last year not so much so I think I’ll just have the books out in a basket and we’ll read them as and when.
-Christmas colouring sheets/ books, old cards and bits of ribbons/ bows that I’ve saved from previous years and we can use for craft/ play this year
-wooden Lanka Kade Christmas/ winter figures - I admit I bought these new for DD’s first Christmas, hideous commercial sheep that I am. She sets up little scenes and things with them
-Wooden nativity set from Aldi - bought new last year but if I promise we will use it for many more years maybe I’ll just about get away with it?
-Christmas cookie/ play dough cutters and a Christmas apron - terribly commercial planet-killing etc etc but were given to us a gifts a few years ago so not actually my fault directly those ones

We also have a fabric advent calendar (made 40+ years ago by my MIL for her boys and then gifted by her to DD) with pockets that we will fill with little bits and bobs - probably mostly chocolate coins

We put on Christmas bedding - hand me downs from friend’s children and used every year. Also have a set for DH and I’s bed which my mum bought me the year before she died - 13 years ago now, and I still use every year (more of a wintery theme than Christmas exactly). And we swap our hand soap dispensers for Father Christmas and Snowman shaped ones - bought with the soap in about 6 years ago now and re-used/ refilled.

I will probably add a couple of craft kits, baking bits or art supplies as and when I see things that are affordable and I think DD would enjoy. I like having things available and to hand, and it makes sense to me that we would keep those things in … well a box.

Wait for it … we also have an (admittedly much smaller) Easter one (spring/ Easter stories, plastic eggs we use for egg hunts, bunny, egg and chick shaped cutters, sticker books and craft stuff, bonnet grandma made, bunny ears and stuff for role play/ dressing up) AND horror of horrors a Halloween one (a light up pumpkin, couple of plastic bowls/ cauldrons that she can use to make ‘potions’ in when playing, fabric leaves that we use for Autumn themed tuff trays with different animal figures etc, a few paper decorations we put up)

80sMum · 04/10/2023 11:09

I've never done a "1st of December box" nor a "Christmas Eve box" and don't know anyone who does, or ever has. I wonder where this idea came from.

RaraRachael · 04/10/2023 11:10

Riverlee · 03/10/2023 21:50

Never heard of December 1st boxes. Never did Christmas Eve boxes, and thankfully missed the Elf trend due to dc being too old when it became A Thing.

what happened to a simple sticking, and presents in Christmas day?

Totally agree. It's all a load of nonsense. Goodness knows how my children ended up as well adjusted adults without having all this stuff.

Oh, don't forget the polar pancakes for breakfast 😂

Gettingbysomehow · 04/10/2023 11:10

What the heck!!!!! There is a first of December box now?

I would not want my kids involved in this blatant commercialism, it creates an unequal society and promotes greed.

Honeychickpea · 04/10/2023 11:25

List writing set
Jesus wept.

Parker231 · 04/10/2023 11:25

80sMum · 04/10/2023 11:09

I've never done a "1st of December box" nor a "Christmas Eve box" and don't know anyone who does, or ever has. I wonder where this idea came from.

we don’t or anyone I know. Christmas books and dvd’s are on the shelves and can be looked at any time of the year. I couldn’t pay DT’s enough if I wanted them to have Christmas duvet, pj’s or jumpers - they think they’re stupid!

Needmorelego · 04/10/2023 11:26

@80sMum so where do you keep your Christmas decorations and when do you get them out?

Needmorelego · 04/10/2023 11:27

@Honeychickpea what's wrong with a letter writing set. Isn't that a tradition - write a letter to Santa?

Dnendns · 04/10/2023 11:27

CallieQ · 04/10/2023 10:51

'Xmas eve boxes have been a thing for years. They are not new. Iv been doing them for my kids for over 10 years and I used to get one as a child also'

Absolutely not a thing for years where I come from... why give kids presents the night before they get more presents?

Good for you but they are not new in the slightest.

Riverlee · 04/10/2023 11:29

My Christmas decorations are kept in the loft, and usually got about about ten days before Christmas.

Needmorelego · 04/10/2023 11:30

@Riverlee so you have a "December 15th" box then.

harerunner · 04/10/2023 11:48

Only 1st Dec and Christmas Eve boxes?

How cheap and miserly. Are you called Ebenezer by any chance?

At least you should do St. Nicholas Day (6 Dec) as well. Where's your festive spirit OP!

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 04/10/2023 11:48

I think people are using the word "box" in different ways.

The OP appears to be using the word "box" in the same way that most people do in this context, meaning a box containing gifts for the recipient. E.g. an Xmas eve box has gifts in it.

If something is recycled year after year for use at Christmas time, it's not a gift for anyone, is it? A gift has to be new to the recipient (even if bought second hand), otherwise what's the point?

So a box of old things isn't a "1st December box" like the OP is referring to, it's just "getting the Christmas stuff out of the cupboard". The fact that it happens to be stored in a box is neither here nor there.

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 04/10/2023 11:49

Needmorelego · 04/10/2023 10:56

@CallieQ I don't think anyone has been talking about "presents". Just Christmas themed things.

Plenty of people have been talking about presents. It's pretty obvious from the replies.

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 04/10/2023 11:51

And the OP is obviously talking about presents because her title literally says:

"What do you put in 1st December boxes vs Christmas Eve boxes?"

She is pretty obviously comparing which gifts would go into which type of box. Unless Xmas Eve boxes are suddenly not about gifts any more?

And she says "boxes". Not one box which the household stores it's Xmas things in, but multiple boxes, for individual members of the household (presumably DC).

HongKongGarden · 04/10/2023 11:52

I’ve never before heard of a 1st December box. I’ve English and French families, and none have ever done this, is it from another culture?

Dalesfun · 04/10/2023 11:55

I don’t do either of these boxes. Just one set of Christmas presents which appear in stockings and under the tree on Christmas Day.

Please don’t normalise this trend of over-giving and over-buying. Three separate occasions of Christmas present-giving in the month of December is insane consumerism. Just stick to advent calendars, shelf elves, and pantomimes etc

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 04/10/2023 11:55

Needmorelego · 04/10/2023 10:34

There's some grumpy Scrooge's on here.
December 1st is the start of Advent - the countdown towards Christmas.
So a "December 1st Box" to me will be getting out the Christmas decorations and other bits and bobs like DVDs of Christmasy films, CDs of Christmas music etc.
Which live in...well...a box 😂
I like getting some craft kits to make new decorations. These obviously need to be made before the big day. I like to read Christmasy chick lit in the run up towards Christmas so I will buy a book before the actual day. So you could say this goes in "the box" (I bought one from a charity shop just the other day - currently it's sat on my bookcase but I won't read it until nearer Christmas).
I don't do a Christmas Eve box because all my stuff comes out throughout December - it's a bit late to be creating crafts and reading books literally the day before.

Advent actually starts on 3rd December this year, if we're getting technical about it.....

MrsDanversChickenSandwich · 04/10/2023 11:58

Greenshake · 04/10/2023 01:02

This is a blatant waste of money that will pile even more pressure onto already stretched parents. Where does this end? It’s bad enough that Halloween is now some massive extravaganza.

This year I've discovered that 'boo boxes' are also a thing. Halloween themed gift boxes...

Dalesfun · 04/10/2023 12:00

AliasGrape · 04/10/2023 11:09

Christ, after the first 3 or so pages of replies not answering the question but just having to point out how awful they find the very idea because it’s so terribly consumerist don’t you know, you wouldn’t think anyone else would feel the need to repeat basically the same thing, but people just can’t help themselves can they?

I don’t think of it as a ‘Dec 1st box’ exactly, but Christmas starts in our house on 1st December. Yes I know it’s not the old fashioned view of 12 days of Christmas etc, but it’s how we like to do it so there we are. I do in fact have a huge box in the garage that is full of Christmassy stuff and we will get it out at beginning of December so essentially it’s a Dec 1st box. It contains:

—lots and lots of Christmas or winter themed picture/ story books - most of these I’ve had from my teaching days, and others I’ve picked up in charity shops since DD was born. The last couple of years I’ve done a book advent calendar type thing, wrapping one up for each day in December to open and read together. The first year it was a big hit, last year not so much so I think I’ll just have the books out in a basket and we’ll read them as and when.
-Christmas colouring sheets/ books, old cards and bits of ribbons/ bows that I’ve saved from previous years and we can use for craft/ play this year
-wooden Lanka Kade Christmas/ winter figures - I admit I bought these new for DD’s first Christmas, hideous commercial sheep that I am. She sets up little scenes and things with them
-Wooden nativity set from Aldi - bought new last year but if I promise we will use it for many more years maybe I’ll just about get away with it?
-Christmas cookie/ play dough cutters and a Christmas apron - terribly commercial planet-killing etc etc but were given to us a gifts a few years ago so not actually my fault directly those ones

We also have a fabric advent calendar (made 40+ years ago by my MIL for her boys and then gifted by her to DD) with pockets that we will fill with little bits and bobs - probably mostly chocolate coins

We put on Christmas bedding - hand me downs from friend’s children and used every year. Also have a set for DH and I’s bed which my mum bought me the year before she died - 13 years ago now, and I still use every year (more of a wintery theme than Christmas exactly). And we swap our hand soap dispensers for Father Christmas and Snowman shaped ones - bought with the soap in about 6 years ago now and re-used/ refilled.

I will probably add a couple of craft kits, baking bits or art supplies as and when I see things that are affordable and I think DD would enjoy. I like having things available and to hand, and it makes sense to me that we would keep those things in … well a box.

Wait for it … we also have an (admittedly much smaller) Easter one (spring/ Easter stories, plastic eggs we use for egg hunts, bunny, egg and chick shaped cutters, sticker books and craft stuff, bonnet grandma made, bunny ears and stuff for role play/ dressing up) AND horror of horrors a Halloween one (a light up pumpkin, couple of plastic bowls/ cauldrons that she can use to make ‘potions’ in when playing, fabric leaves that we use for Autumn themed tuff trays with different animal figures etc, a few paper decorations we put up)

All of this is so lovely. We have this too.
Apologies for misunderstanding OP if you were referring to “getting the well worn box of decorations down from the attic” not a box of presents on 1 Dec (or 24 and 25 Dec)