So my DH and I had decided (same as last year) to simply not buy anything for each other. We have young children and I work a very part time job so income is poor.
Don't get me wrong there lots id love, even little things, but nothing I really need at all.
However last week DH said to me "I've bought myself something and your not allowed to be cross" - I never am if he buys something anyway, it's his business. But he said he'd ordered himself a pair of wireless headphones (the over head kind) I said sure that's ok, he wants them for exercise etc... I asked how much they were and he said around £200, but he's paying them off (Klarna or the likes)
He also ensured he bought gifts for two work colleagues who have helped him in his new role at work, maybe £25 per person.
Should I be annoyed that he's willing to spend this on himself and work colleagues, but nothing on his wife? For the record I have gotten him a small present, something I know he needed. But I'm certain I won't get anything nor is he expecting anything in return.