My ds just turned 4 recently and I'm really struggling with ideas for Christmas whereas I have loads for my 6 year old dd.
He has ASD and has been obsessed with Spiderman for over a year, however he's recently started to grow out of it slightly so I think this may be out.
His most recent obsession is Disney Princesses, he absolutely loves them. He wears my dd's old dress up dresses and has asked for more, as well as more of the princess teddies. He likes a lot of stuff that is stereotypically for girls at the moment e.g. Barbie. I don't mind this so I will get him some, but ideally I wouldn't everything to be along those lines.
He doesn't really like anything that's considered 'boyish' so I'm thinking maybe buy some stuff that's more unisex such as Kinetic sand, play-doh etc as he does love sensory play.
I'd really appreciate any ideas of what your children liked at this age. Thanks!