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Did I die and wake up on a Mrs Hinch fan forum?
😂 same....! My kids are older now, so obviously I am too, but it really struck me how many more 'extras' have been added to the whole Christmas thing (like Elf on a shelf, Christmas Eve boxes, special activities, etc)
A Hot Chocolate Station sounds so delicious and a lovely birthday/Christmas treat.
I am amazed and a bit in awe of people who (a) have the time and energy and (b) can afford all the extra bits and (c) are creative enough to carry them out. And actually (D) have the type of family that will appreciate it all!
We had amazing christmases when I was young (in the 70s) and also when mine were young but it was also quite stressful/busy without all the current 'extras'. My 70s childhood Christmas was literally a paper advent calendar, a tree, a stocking, presents and meal. It was a 2/3 day 'thing' - no huge build up but still felt really magical.
I did the same for mine, but added a Christmas Eve activity, 2 trees!, some garlands, candles, twinkly lights - that kind of thing. Oh and a Santa visit a few days before (which always had to be booked in the March before). Celebrating was stretched out until NYD.
Now it seems to be almost all of December and some of November.
I'm not criticising at all, please don't think that, it's just that I've found now mine are adults I'm 'out of the loop' about the way things are sometimes done now. Halloween is a much bigger thing too. And Easter I guess.
I can't decide if I wish I had little ones again and could do lots of these extras, or am thankful that I don't have to worry about them!
I really hope that the families of everyone doing all the work towards it appreciate the effort, love and time that's gone in to it.