My brother and his wife have insisted on having everyone for Christmas this year, and have rejected any offer of a contribution to food/drink.
They have done this as they are aware we are having a bit of a shit year and wanted to make Christmas less stressful for us.
It is so lovely and thoughtful of them that I want to get them something extra special as a present, but I’m drawing a blank! They are both 40 and are very unmaterialistic and a little bit hard up for money but would never moan.
I just want to give them something that would show them how much I appreciate them without making them feel uncomfortable. It’s so hard 