Hello my husband has asked his aunty and uncle to visit for a few days at xmas and also his older cousin who I hardly know possibly Xmas eve or day before! We have a 10 and 12 year old and although I don't mind 2/3 nights I really don't want them here Xmas day morning as I feel this should just be family time! They live a few hours drive and I don't feel I can ask them to stay in a hotel - am I being unreasonable?