I feel like I need bl**dy Trinny and Susannah. I'm 34, 2 small children, don't want to look like mutton but don't want to look 50 in glittery knitwear either. I'm a size 12 but slightly gone west. There are a couple of professional women in my office who are too old for boots and short skirts and still wear them, I don't want to end up like that. I'm not on the pull as happily married but still want to look attractive and not frumpy. Not sure where I lost my confidence about clothes to go out in but somewhere it has gone.......Help! Any tips?