And strangely liberating... DS1 is at Uni and working Christmas Eve and Boxing Day, so won't be coming home. DS2 has a PT job at a restaurant and wants to work (£15 p/h, untold riches at 16 so can't blame him) So just DH and I and we're going to still have the full works Christmas Dinner, will just be doing it another day, maybe the weekend after.
Now we have decided this, I'm actually quite excited. DS2 finishes about half five ( job is in rural location so he needs a lift, so no alcohol) then we are going to eat nibbly, party type food, have a drink and watch films all evening. Sounds great! DH and I may well go back to bed in the afternoon for some empty house Christmas conjugals:)
DS1 will be back in Jan for his 21st, so we get to do the big family thing then.
We've been invited by SIL for lunch Boxing Day, and will no doubt be seeing other relatives over Christmas, so although it seemed weird at first, I'm looking forward to a very laid back Christmas!