Family members have started to ask me what dd would like for Christmas and I never know what to suggest. We are making her a wooden shop/puppet theatre and will get her a few bits as well, probably games to play and accessories for her shop. People usually want to buy a toy and I'm crap at giving ideas. DH'S family in particular like a big list to choose from. I have previously suggested that people get whatever they would like to and gave been told off for being unhelpful!