Just that really. We've met up just once a week for the last 6 weeks and have done "something" each time, eg cinema, museum visit, drive in the country, walk through the woods, visited a historical town house. Although we've talked constantly I am at a loss what to buy and how much to spend. I know what shops he likes but a voucher seems a bit lame. I haven't been to his house yet so I don't know what he has there either. Any ideas?