...and how are you going to incorporate family xmas into working hours? I'm a waitress so xmas day is one of the busiest for us, this is my first year having to work it. I don't start till 12 so will be spending the morning with DH and 3 DC opening presents etc. They are all going to MIL for xmas dinner. I'm off work on xmas eve so would like to try and do some xmassy stuff with kids then.