DH, DD and I were invited quite wholeheartedly to a relative's for lunch on Christmas Day. We didn't accept the invitation but the invitee assumed we would (heard through the grapevine) and got down to making plans. DH and I talked it through and concluded we would make the best of it, help as much as possible with prep and have a relaxing day on the 27th instead.
Today however our invitation was recalled! The invitee was extremely apologetic, but they were inviting my estranged sister and as she has no other family they thought our little family would be ok alone.
Whoop whoop. We can now eat lunch when we want for small DD, all have a nap and then go out visiting family for the afternoon. Brilliant.
I do have to figure out how small a turkey we can get away with.