Can anyone point me to an explanation of timings etc please. There are some things I have I am saving for that which I put on my form I have, which is absolutely fine if they are needed and I'd be delighted for another mumsnteter to have them, but if not needed I want to give them to a charity shop in time for christmas. DC2 is due week before xmas and I am doing some seriously tidying and nesting and have irrational feeling that I need things out of the house asap.