I too think stockings by the fireplace is nice (a la The Night Before Christmas), but I also like the idea of DS waking up and feeling something weighty at the foot of the bed (not that his legs reach that far down!).
I am thinking of hanging the stocking by the fireplace, which the elves will fill with little bits and pieces to open (socks, chocolate, satsuma, puzzles, crayons etc) and sneak into the bedroom with, then Santa leaves a sack of larger gifts by the tree. There was always something lovely about opening little presents in bed, and trying to stay awake to catch Santa coming in. And then the proper gifts, open with the family.
Just need to get our story straight!
Thanks for all the replies!