I usually send a Christmas card to this particular relative, she is nice, I like her, but geographically very far away so see her maybe once every 2/3 years and we exchange Christmas cards with pics of kids etc.
I hear from another relative that the above relative has got divorced. I suppose it is accurate (?) but I have no idea how far through the divorce they are/if they got back together/what names are used etc.
I usually write: To Claire, Steve, Jamie and Ella. I don't know where steve is so should I write To Claire & family? I can't really say anything about the divorce in a christmas card so was just going to put pic of kids in. Is that horrible? I really don't know her at all well. 