I am really struggling to think of something to buy for my new (ish) nephew - my brother's step-son - for Christmas. They live 300 miles away from us so we do not see them often and so I have no idea of what he has got but it sounds as though he is the boy who has everything. He is a lovely lad and I want to get something he would really like. No use asking my new(ish) sister - in - law as she just says "oh, don't bother too much, he has got loads of stuff anyway." Thing is I do not want to treat him any differently than I do my brother's own ( much older) children but I really do not know what is "in" with this age group nowadays.