You'll have one @FluffyWabbit, I wasn't entirely sure either until fairly recently. Going to a great church that isn't afraid to talk about these things and also praying about it helped a lot.
That's very special @Thedoorisalwaysopen.
My main one is discernment too 🤗@Thegreatestoftheseislove. It's obviously very useful on a personal level, but I'm still trying to work out how to use it for the purpose of building up the body of Christ.
I think people sometimes confuse the gifts of the Spirit with the fruit of the Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control etc.).
The main verse is found in Corinthians:
'Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good. To one there is given through the Spirit a message of wisdom, to another a message of knowledge by means of the same Spirit,* *to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by that one Spirit, to another miraculous powers, to another prophecy, to another distinguishing between spirits, to another speaking in different kinds of tongues, and to still another the interpretation of tongues. All these are the work of one and the same Spirit, and he distributes them to each one, just as he determines.' (1 Corinthians 12:7-11).