I would like to raise awareness of a condition called Encopresis. It is VERY common. Symptoms are as follows:-
Constipation, sometimes very dry and hard pellet like poos and intermittent diarrhoea.
The child has previously been fully toilet trained and starts to have accidents, sometimes at night.
Headaches , tummy aches, feeling sick and unwell.
Secretive behavior and loss of confidence/self esteem.
It can be caused simply by poor diet but also for physical or psychological reasons. For this reason it needs a pediatricians care to assess the underlying cause.
The bowel gets impacted and becomes overstretched. numbing nerve endings, hence loss of sensation and control. The bowel needs unblocking and retraining usually using a combination of Senekot and Lactulose.
It is very distressing for the child and frustrating for the parents who often don't understand why the child can't control themselves, believing they are just being lazy or naughty if any of this sounds familiar, check it out.