well hes 2 tomorrow - anyway he woke on screaming and i thought a firewrk had woke him up so after much soothing he went back off only to wake at midnight absolutly hysterical - no settling at all - gave calpol and nurofen and he went off after an hr- he always has waxy ears and noticed really really waxy later in the day as he was crying and wimpering again so took to docs who said his ear was full of rubish and prob has a small hole in it so gave anti b's. No other advice just anti bs and off we went. Should i be dooing anything else? I havent cleaned the dark brown gunk away as he wont let me near it which is fair enough. I have loaded him with calpol but my mother keeps harping on about stuffing cotton wool in there which im thinking is wrong unless bath time? Wisdom of mumsnetters i welcome please and how long do they take to fix?