Hi, my son has always been hard work...right from when he was a baby... just thought it was parenthood and that i had a child and so must prove to the world i could do it. Did think this is bloody hard work but got on with it. Had two more children and started noticing differences. i know children are not all the same..but my son does not remember instructions is horrible to his siblings has been excluded fron school now four times is twitchy and fidgets can not concerntrate on anything unless it relly grabs his attention..i.e playstation/computer. He is receiving councilling with CAHMS and they have got me to do a connors report but how do i push for this diagnosis. he is 12 now...any advice or help?