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Baby on her third day of sleep?

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endcityspawner · 26/12/2024 17:36

First time mum so forgive me if I’m being over dramatic!

Baby is 11 months old and on 23rd Dec was sick after her tea but we assumed food went down the wrong way as that’s how it sounded. 6am on Christmas Eve she woke up on her back bringing up bile I assume. She slept the whole of Christmas Eve, we didn’t see her for more than an hour and then all night again. Christmas Day was the same, she had to be woke and as soon as you do wake her she falls back to sleep. She’s difficult to wake and her eyes just roll back to sleep.

Last night (Christmas Day) she vomited again baring it mind it had been 38 hours since the last vomit and the time before that was 13 hours so I know it’s not noro etc.

After she was sick last night she went to bed and slept for 14 hours, again we had to wake her this morning. She drank 2oz of milk and fell asleep sat up and went back down for another 2.5 hours before we woke her for Calpol. She had Calpol, vomited and went back to sleep. She’s been asleep since. We can’t wake her, she opens her eyes for a split second before rolling them back to sleep.

She hasn’t eaten since the 23rd which I’m not overly concerned about because I know she won’t starve and will eat when she’s hungry. She also hasn’t had any milk bar the 2oz today which again, not overly concerned about as fluids is most important and she’s sipping water when we wake her for it.

I guess my main concern is the sleep? I know it’s a red flag when baby is difficult to wake and it’s not even as if she’s sleeping all day then up at night. She is literally sleeping all day and all night for now the third day straight. She’s been awake for no longer than an hour today.

Is it just a case of letting her keep sleeping and sleeping or does she need to be seen?

I’m reluctant that I’m just being an overly paranoid first time mum. Like I said food and milk isn’t my concern as she’ll eat when she’s ready it’s just the sleep.

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Nanny1965 · 28/12/2024 22:30

endcityspawner · 27/12/2024 00:53

We rang 111 in the first instance and the on call nurse said to take her straight in due to lack of fluids and lethargy.

The nearest children’s A&E to us is just over 45 miles crossing the border to Liverpool as we’re in Wales but there is a few other A&E’s around us so perhaps go back there? I’m not sure I want to go back and see the same doctor at the original one we went to

Do the journey. It's worth it. Childens drs and second opinion all in one. Maybe take a written sleep diary so they can see the amount she is having.

Lyraloo · 28/12/2024 22:32

Sorry, I was so shocked when I read your first post I didn’t read all the rest. Thank goodness you’ve had it checked out, I hope she’s soon on the mend and ok bless her heart. What a Christmas you’ve had, sad when, I bet, you’d been looking forward to it. Thankfully sounds like it’s nothing serious. 🥰

RedSugarMaple · 28/12/2024 22:37

endcityspawner · 26/12/2024 17:36

First time mum so forgive me if I’m being over dramatic!

Baby is 11 months old and on 23rd Dec was sick after her tea but we assumed food went down the wrong way as that’s how it sounded. 6am on Christmas Eve she woke up on her back bringing up bile I assume. She slept the whole of Christmas Eve, we didn’t see her for more than an hour and then all night again. Christmas Day was the same, she had to be woke and as soon as you do wake her she falls back to sleep. She’s difficult to wake and her eyes just roll back to sleep.

Last night (Christmas Day) she vomited again baring it mind it had been 38 hours since the last vomit and the time before that was 13 hours so I know it’s not noro etc.

After she was sick last night she went to bed and slept for 14 hours, again we had to wake her this morning. She drank 2oz of milk and fell asleep sat up and went back down for another 2.5 hours before we woke her for Calpol. She had Calpol, vomited and went back to sleep. She’s been asleep since. We can’t wake her, she opens her eyes for a split second before rolling them back to sleep.

She hasn’t eaten since the 23rd which I’m not overly concerned about because I know she won’t starve and will eat when she’s hungry. She also hasn’t had any milk bar the 2oz today which again, not overly concerned about as fluids is most important and she’s sipping water when we wake her for it.

I guess my main concern is the sleep? I know it’s a red flag when baby is difficult to wake and it’s not even as if she’s sleeping all day then up at night. She is literally sleeping all day and all night for now the third day straight. She’s been awake for no longer than an hour today.

Is it just a case of letting her keep sleeping and sleeping or does she need to be seen?

I’m reluctant that I’m just being an overly paranoid first time mum. Like I said food and milk isn’t my concern as she’ll eat when she’s ready it’s just the sleep.

Hospital immediately

NoDought · 28/12/2024 23:07

Mumsnet has a duty of care to stop posts like this and instantly direct to medical advice, 111/999 to be handled by a means tested algorithm to ensure directed to most appropriate service. As a medical professional I find it deeply concerning seeing posts like this with worried parents innocently asking the internet but feel in the interest of safety they should be handled by trained individuals and services not an internet forum. I hope the child is ok.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 28/12/2024 23:27

@NoDought

It is unfortunate that as a busy medical professional you were unable to find the time to read all the replies from this young Mum.

However rest assured - baby has been to A&E twice !!!

endcityspawner · 28/12/2024 23:28

Lyraloo · 28/12/2024 22:24

Don’t be so stupid! Three days is a long time for a baby of 11 months to not eat or drink anything but a few sips of water. Combined with sleeping, vomiting and being difficult to wake, this is an emergency situation. Get her to a dr or hospital immediately! Has she had a wet nappy during this time ?

There is no need to call me stupid. If you’d read the thread you’d know we went to A&E not once, but twice. Way to belittle a new mum 👍🏻

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endcityspawner · 28/12/2024 23:31

Deadbeatex · 28/12/2024 19:36

How's DC today @endcityspawner ?

I've got to say this post has been on my mind, obviously because it sounded scary that your DC was poorly but also because I felt so sad that due to your age and being a FTM you felt judged and hesitant to advocate for your baby. I'm so glad that you posted and with the helpful advice you recieved you were confident enough to go back to the hospital and request a further check up. I was a FTM in my 30s and I remember the worry of "am I overreacting" as you don't really know what you're doing with this tiny human you are now responsible for!

My attitude then and my attitude now that I'm in my 40s with 2DC and a single mum is "I don't care" i don't care if I sound stupid, I don't care if i look stupid, I don't care. Please OP try and get this mindset as much as you can, none of us know what we are doing as parents, we're all winging it in some shape or form! Your age is irrelevant, I've met excellent younger mums than you and I've met awful mums my own age. Trust your instincts and never be afraid of looking or sounding stupid, you can't know what you don't know so ask all the questions and learn and keep loving and advocating for your DC x

To make a long post even longer....lol when my DD (PFB) was 8 weeks old she wouldn't take a feed and I just KNEW something wasn't right. I went to the hospital and of course she took the bottle fine in front of the dr! He was very patronising but as soon as he walked away DD started kicking off over feeding again and my head spun so fast to lock eyes with the Dr with a pure I TOLD YOU SO glare lol we were admitted and within a couple of days DD was grand but I'm glad I trusted my instincts to go up in the first place as I just knew something wasn't right even though I couldn't really explain how or what was wrong. DD is now 9 and a pain in the butt lmao

After saying she was better and thinking she’d turned a corner (playing, crawling, eating and even had a bath!) she’s just vomited all over my bed 😅

Maybe just too much too soon x

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endcityspawner · 28/12/2024 23:34

DD has been completely fine today - usual naps, appetite returned somewhat but still off milk, crawling about playing + had a bath before bed playing with her new bath toys she got for Xmas.

DP was putting her to bed whilst I was upstairs and got shouted up as she’d vomited a fair bit covering him, her and the bed 😅 I assume it’s just a case of maybe too much too soon? Gosh I hope it’s over soon - awful emetaphobe who has been on edge for days!

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Deadbeatex · 28/12/2024 23:35

Ah she's done that on purpose babes 1) to keep you on your toes and 2) to make sure you don't sleep tonight but stay up playing with her! It's horrible when they are poorly especially when they can't say this hurts/this is how I feel. Just remember you're several days in now so you're closer to the end of it than the beginning x

endcityspawner · 28/12/2024 23:42

Deadbeatex · 28/12/2024 23:35

Ah she's done that on purpose babes 1) to keep you on your toes and 2) to make sure you don't sleep tonight but stay up playing with her! It's horrible when they are poorly especially when they can't say this hurts/this is how I feel. Just remember you're several days in now so you're closer to the end of it than the beginning x

Needed to hear this ❤️ thank you so much!

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Lyraloo · 28/12/2024 23:57

endcityspawner · 28/12/2024 23:28

There is no need to call me stupid. If you’d read the thread you’d know we went to A&E not once, but twice. Way to belittle a new mum 👍🏻

If you read my next post, I did apologise. I reacted because I was very worried about your baby. My friend lost her baby in similar circumstances and it scared me that you sounded so casual, talking about her eating when she was hungry! I know from bitter experience that that isn’t always the case!

Sapphireblueeyes · 29/12/2024 00:06

Oh god take her to A&E NOW!

thaegumathteth · 29/12/2024 00:07

Sapphireblueeyes · 29/12/2024 00:06

Oh god take her to A&E NOW!

Why? She's improving

Changeagain3 · 29/12/2024 00:12

My child was ill a lot as a baby. We got dismissed a lot at the hospital. Turned out to be heart failure. Missed by countless doctors including a specialist. Finally picked up by one doctor who happened to be doing an overview of the discharges that day from hospital. It was literally one doctor telling us nothing wrong just a minor viral infection to a second doctor rushing child for emergency tests and treatment

endcityspawner · 29/12/2024 01:20

Lyraloo · 28/12/2024 23:57

If you read my next post, I did apologise. I reacted because I was very worried about your baby. My friend lost her baby in similar circumstances and it scared me that you sounded so casual, talking about her eating when she was hungry! I know from bitter experience that that isn’t always the case!

I apologise for jumping the gun, there’s a lot of responses on this thread so missed your second one. I appreciate your concern, I really do just didn’t want to be called stupid. Thank you and I’m sorry for your friends loss ❤️

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YellowDiamondsInTheSky · 29/12/2024 01:33

endcityspawner · 29/12/2024 01:20

I apologise for jumping the gun, there’s a lot of responses on this thread so missed your second one. I appreciate your concern, I really do just didn’t want to be called stupid. Thank you and I’m sorry for your friends loss ❤️

Try not to let the negative posts upset you. I started an A&E thread a couple of years and I had several posters telling me I’m a terrible mother and that social services will call me once the hospital know I didn’t rush my child to hospital. Unsurprisingly, I had done nothing wrong to justify a call from social services but MNers still enjoyed kicking me when I was a worried FTM. It’s not personal, it’s keyboard warriors.

Laurmolonlabe · 29/12/2024 08:46

The sleeping is a worry, but dehydration is a bigger one if she hasn't eaten and hasn't been awake she can't have had enough fluids- so A&E now.

Yabadabadu · 29/12/2024 09:20

Take her to a&e immediately. As a doctor, these are all the signs of a very unwell baby. She sounds lethargic. Don’t wait, go to your nearest paediatric a&e now.

itzthTtimeGib · 29/12/2024 09:24

Yabadabadu · 29/12/2024 09:20

Take her to a&e immediately. As a doctor, these are all the signs of a very unwell baby. She sounds lethargic. Don’t wait, go to your nearest paediatric a&e now.

As a doctor I’m concerned you haven’t thought to check for updates on the child, many of which have been posted…

Kave · 29/12/2024 10:30

How is she?

thechampselysee · 29/12/2024 13:49

endcityspawner · 28/12/2024 23:34

DD has been completely fine today - usual naps, appetite returned somewhat but still off milk, crawling about playing + had a bath before bed playing with her new bath toys she got for Xmas.

DP was putting her to bed whilst I was upstairs and got shouted up as she’d vomited a fair bit covering him, her and the bed 😅 I assume it’s just a case of maybe too much too soon? Gosh I hope it’s over soon - awful emetaphobe who has been on edge for days!

I would be calling 111 just to check and get more advice, or as it's daytime now could you contact your gp for advice? Maybe she has norovirus.

endcityspawner · 29/12/2024 14:20

No sick since so I doubt it’s norovirus to be honest. She seems fine again today although last night was very unsettled

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HornyHornersPinger · 29/12/2024 15:13

endcityspawner · 29/12/2024 14:20

No sick since so I doubt it’s norovirus to be honest. She seems fine again today although last night was very unsettled

In my experience it's always nights when they're poorliest! No idea why, but it really is a thing. My lg has hardly ever vomited or had a temperature during the day... Have had plenty of bed-vomming incidents though! 🤷🏼‍♀️

Cnf1 · 29/12/2024 16:27

A&e immediately. It's okay for them to sleep more when I'll, but when they're awake, they should be alert. My whole family are doctors and that's their mantra.

thaegumathteth · 29/12/2024 16:28

Cnf1 · 29/12/2024 16:27

A&e immediately. It's okay for them to sleep more when I'll, but when they're awake, they should be alert. My whole family are doctors and that's their mantra.

Why would you comment on a thread with hundreds of replies as if you're the first????