Hi, I'm pretty new to posting but I could really do with some advise, information or just anyone who has had a similar experience and can offer any help.
So from about 2 weeks old we've been back and forth to the Dr's with our little girl. At first it was just a rough case of colic, try infacol/anti colic bottles if you want but she'll just grow out of it. Fine, okay we can deal with that.
We were on Cow & Gate stage 1 regular formula at first and at 3 weeks old were told she had reflux as well as the colic, which I suspected (dd1 had reflux... Similar symptoms here but much worse) we were given gaviscon and sent on out way.
Gaviscon did absolutely nothing except for make her sick lumpy (whereas gaviscon helped dd1 immeasurably and almost immediately) so we went back to the GP. Try comfort milk they suggested. We did, she vomited more than ever, so back again... This time we were told to try anti reflux (stay down) formula -whenever we tried a medicated formula we stuck to cow and gate- day 1 and 2 of the Anti-reflux milk, Anti colic bottles and infacol combo went great. Then she was back to vomiting after every feed - not possetting, she's my 4th baby, I knew the sick wasn't normal- so back to the GP again (all this in the space of about 3 weeks) now my ds2 was lactose intolerant and given everything we had tried and the fact dd2 was still throwing up loads constantly I was beginning to suspect similar.
Our GP referred us to Paeds. During the wait for paeds appointment we kept her on anti reflux milk but 3 times during the wait she threw up, except didn't spit it out, tried to swallow it back, choked on her sick and almost stopped breathing. (one morning I left her in her crib and went to make a bottle and came back to find her with sick pouring from her nose, choking and barely breathing and had to stick my fingers down her throat to clear her)
Anyway, this morning was our paeds appointment. The paediatrician suspects Cows milk protein allergy and has prescribed similac Alimentum so far today she has had 3 bottles of this (although has gone from her 6oz of the anti reflux milk to only 3oz of the similac) she is incredibly unsettled and throwing up more than she was on the anti reflux milk (in fact probably more than she ever has) is this normal? Is it because it's a new formula and different brand, is it because her body is getting rid of all the previous cows milk formula? How long do I persevere with her like this before going back to the GP? Is this to be expected?
Edit: I've not left her on her own anywhere since the choking incident, I felt terrible and I'm now petrified to even lay her down and she comes everywhere with me constantly.
Also any help, advise, just reassurance that this will get better. Anything. Would be much appreciated!
Edit 2: I think I initially posted this in the wrong section as I posted in Allergies etc. Hoping I've found the right place now!
Edit 3: So she's been on the Similac over 24 hours now. She's still vomiting large amounts, it's quite mucousy sick almost stringy (she does have a cold) but she's still doing her choking 'trick' she's still taking 3oz rather than 6oz and she seems to be going longer between feeds. Now she does seem a little more settled/cheerful within herself at times, but then goes back to being a screeching nightmare.
She's thrown up that much I've run out of clean tops, she's pooped a strange mixture of her usual yellowy poop mixed with a dark green sludge/slime delight, had a bath which she screamed through (she's just stopped screaming through bathtime) had a feed and vomited some up in a snotty mess and shes been asleep for 2.5 hours (gone 3.5 hours between feeds, usually does 3) it took an hour to stop her throwing up and get her to sleep.
Is this all normal from changing formula? Am I expecting to see results too quickly? How long do I leave her like this.. I'm worried she's not feeding enough and worried she's going to drop weight, I'm worried she's going to choke again, I'm just really really worried. Am I worrying over nothing? Is she just getting used to another new formula? Clearing her little system so that the hypoallergenic milk settles her? When ds2 went on lactose free milk it was an almost instant result and within 48 hours he was a different baby.... Am I expecting too much?