My ds is due to have his cleft repair op in 5 weeks. I am dreading it and really worried as to how sore he will be afterwards. I feel like all the doctors/ nurses have down played how bad it is and whilst it doesn't actually make any difference to the reality I just want to know what we're in for.
Has anyone else got a child who has had this surgery? If so could you please share your experiences with me and do you have any tips?
Thanks