DS1 is 4 1/2, a very happy boy, developing brilliantly and very excited about starting school in September.
Today we were told he's anaemic, and starts iron supplements immediately, but I'm wondering why as I know anaemia is only a symptom, and something must be causing it.
A bit of background: he's always been tiny for his age, was born at 25th centile, dropped to 2nd by 5mo and has been down at the 2nd ever since. We took him to HV at 2yo as it seemed odd he was so small (DH and I are both 5ft 10 and have immediate relatives well over 6ft), and they weren't concerned at all as he was following his growth curve and developing brilliantly.
He's always been a child who's needed a lot of sleep, and although he eats a very balanced diet, he has a very small appetite, and for example if he has a big lunch, will often be too tired and not hungry enough for dinner and will go to bed on an empty stomach and still sleep through, and make up for it at breakfast. But other times he eats a normal evening meal.
Last autumn he had a skin infection, then a nail bed infection, both of which finally cleared up following a course of antibiotics. Then the skin infection suddenly came back before Easter, the GP prescribed anti-biotics and referred us to the hospital because she was concerned that it had come back. The infection was around his bottom, all external, but some fissures and bleeding too so GP was keen to get a specialist opinion. Saw a lovely paediatrician the following week (impressive NHS referral!) who did blood tests, stool sample etc and took a swab. It still showed signs of infection so she prescribed a longer course of stronger anti-biotics.
Today I had the blood results back, and he is anaemic. All other results were completely normal. I reiterated concern about his size/appetite/tiredness/inability to fight infection but she assured me that the coeliac results were negative. So if its not coeliacs, then what other reason could there be for his failure to absorb iron from food, and lack of growth?
FIL has coeliacs, and his first symptom was anaemia, which was diagnosed when he was a teenager.
Thank you if you're still reading, all ideas welcome including telling me I'm a neurotic mother!!