dear cheekyginger - thanks very much for this wonderful thread.
my little boy (23 weeks tomorrow) appears to have a squint in his left eye. i can't see it, nor anyone in my family, nor can i see it on any of the photos i have taken of him - and i have studied them for ages now - however HV told me so.
what little one does do is rub his eyes a lot and sometimes one eye is a little smaller for a bit, sometimes the left and sometimes the right, but it is after his wild rubbing which he seems to love at the moment and his eyes always align - at least that is what i see and what my mother sees.
i had a squint when i was five and it was corrected by special glasses (my mother spotted it; she is a trained nurse and always alert to medical issues). i am originally from germany and it is normal to have a yearly eye checkup with a specialist doctor from an early age and i am a little confused with the system here.
HV insisted ds has a squint and referred me to a specialist clinic: what will they do to ds? will he have to have the stingy eyedrops (i remember them from when i was 5 and they were horrible)?
little one had a bit of a flathead issue going on and the osteopath said it was due to his position in the womb, a muscle in his left shoulder needed to loosen, which is now fine. i just thought i add this.
i am just very worried now....