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Population overload.

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chaosmaker · 29/06/2023 11:48

Just wondering if anyone else thinks that we are at a stage where we should incentivise/reward people who choose not to breed. We're on a finitely resourced planet and I've just read a thread where people were talking about some celebrity having a 4th kid via a surrogate.
Should we talk about how the more kids you have, the more competition you are making for them in adult life?

AI is already being used to take over previously human staffed jobs. It's been creeping into jobs like journalism for ages.
There have been famines in various countries for ever and yet we are at a point in evolution where we have more power over our fertility than ever.
Interested in what other people think about this.

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SarahShorty · 02/07/2023 09:33

Human reproduction is literally a primal urge. God above.

sunglassesonthetable · 02/07/2023 09:54

The growing elderly population may be less of a burden if they can remain fitter but that's probably true of all ages given just obesity levels without what health issues they lead to.

You what? This makes NO SENSE at all.

Tell someone with Alzheimer's they need to remain fitter.

Tell a 92 year old they need to remain fitter.

sunglassesonthetable · 02/07/2023 09:55

Nope. They either run out of food, or their predator population explodes. There's no inbuilt fertility control. Some species have a degree of breeding control (won't mate if they can't find a suitable nesting site), but that's a different thing - and even that is rare.

And this.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 02/07/2023 10:04

The growing elderly population may be less of a burden

A burden? well, thanks for that. So far this week as a childfree woman I've been called a baby killer, a psychopath, selfish, uncaring, and now a burden. Not for the first time, either.

I suppose I shouldn't be surprised. I'm in my late 60s and childfree - a lot of people on this site seem to equate those things with being some sort of existential threat to the equilibrium of society. A bit like witches.

(I don't disagree with older people needing to be as fit as they can be, there have been numerous articles and books written on exercise in older life on the basis of 'use it or lose it.')

sunglassesonthetable · 02/07/2023 10:14

(I don't disagree with older people needing to be as fit as they can be, there have been numerous articles and books written on exercise in older life on the basis of 'use it or lose it.')

Of course. For their own health and well being.

But fitness doesn't override chronic issues that occur with age or infirmity.

DidItMatter · 02/07/2023 10:32

If you’re interested, there’s a Triggernometry episode called The Depopulation Bomb about this. Also a documentary about it.

As others have said there is a declining birth rate fuelled by more people not having children. This is something that needs to be planned for. There are currently 900,000 50 year olds in the uk. 700,000 babies were born in the last year. Those babies will enter the workforce just as those 50 year olds retire. So with fewer people entering workforce than who are retiring, how will the pensions be paid? Also, who will care for them and how will taxes be raised for the NHS care of older people?

There isn’t a moral judgement on anyone choosing to have kids or not, but it does need to be financially and practically planned for. In Japan it’s in the news regularly but doesn’t appear to be in the UK.

sunglassesonthetable · 02/07/2023 10:38

There isn’t a moral judgement on anyone choosing to have kids or not, but it does need to be financially and practically planned for. In Japan it’s in the news regularly but doesn’t appear to be in the UK.

Exactly. Everyone gets old.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 02/07/2023 10:42

sunglassesonthetable · 02/07/2023 10:38

There isn’t a moral judgement on anyone choosing to have kids or not, but it does need to be financially and practically planned for. In Japan it’s in the news regularly but doesn’t appear to be in the UK.

Exactly. Everyone gets old.

Had an IFA I was consulting about pensions say that the fact that people get old seems to come as a complete surprise to successive UK governments, but that they only plan for the term they are going to be in office - after that it's someone else's problem. The trouble with that philosophy is that neglected problems just get to the point were something HAS to be done and of course, thanks to the neglect it's very expensive.

1dayatatime · 02/07/2023 10:55

@DidItMatter

"As others have said there is a declining birth rate fuelled by more people not having children. This is something that needs to be planned for. There are currently 900,000 50 year olds in the uk. 700,000 babies were born in the last year. Those babies will enter the workforce just as those 50 year olds retire. So with fewer people entering workforce than who are retiring, how will the pensions be paid? Also, who will care for them and how will taxes be raised for the NHS care of older people? "

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You raise a number of really good pounds which we can already see be played out.

For example a large part of the delay in A&E is caused by a lack of support services for elderly after they leave hospital. So instead they stay in hospital that blocks a bed.

The two largest areas of Government spending are on the NHS and state / public sector pensions which continues to grow every year. This means less money for things like education etc.

BadNomad · 02/07/2023 10:59

Do you think the people having children now worry about who is going to fund pensions and nurse those children when they get old? Never mind us oldies now, it is the new generation of babies being born who are really going to suffer in old age.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 02/07/2023 11:04

BadNomad · 02/07/2023 10:59

Do you think the people having children now worry about who is going to fund pensions and nurse those children when they get old? Never mind us oldies now, it is the new generation of babies being born who are really going to suffer in old age.

They don't think about the child being an adult at all, let alone elderly. You see this on the baby-naming threads: it's all about what's cute now, for a small child.

CyanCrystalViolet · 02/07/2023 11:11

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 02/07/2023 11:04

They don't think about the child being an adult at all, let alone elderly. You see this on the baby-naming threads: it's all about what's cute now, for a small child.

I’ve just had a peek. Crikey!

FourTeaFallOut · 02/07/2023 11:15

Oh please, what did you expects on the baby names board? It's not representative of the whole parenting population. It'd be like heading over to the larger families board and declaring that depopulation isn't going to be a problem.

sunglassesonthetable · 02/07/2023 11:19

They don't think about the child being an adult at all, let alone elderly. You see this on the baby-naming threads: it's all about what's cute now, for a small child.

Please. The BNB is hardly an indication of anything except baby names.

kitsuneghost · 02/07/2023 11:26

There is enough people having children. Just the wrong people.
Not sure how to fix that though.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 02/07/2023 11:31

The baby-naming threads are just an example.

How many prospective parents think about the fact that the baby they plan to conceive will one day be old, will likely suffer ill-health, and will die? That the baby will, as it gets older, have to deal with the death of every adult it knows and loves in childhood? That the baby may suffer terrible mental or physical ill-health?

FourTeaFallOut · 02/07/2023 11:35

Well, I would say all of them. It is the nature of the human condition after all, you can't outrun it.

FoodFann · 02/07/2023 11:45

Crikey, what a dystopian thought.

AI is taking over so you want to stop humans from repopulating the earth?! You want to eradicate humans and replace them with robots?

Hmm… maybe you’re AI gone rogue!

MissTwinklePaws · 02/07/2023 11:49

kitsuneghost · 02/07/2023 11:26

There is enough people having children. Just the wrong people.
Not sure how to fix that though.

Yes, agree.

Also, anyone advocating more children be born, please don't complain when their children are born to awful families; food and water prices rise; your children can't afford to rent or buy a home; or you're stuck in traffic with 200 other cars.

Are people really this stupid to think we need to increase human populations? It's fine to want a family but actively promoting the idea that we need more people is fucking stupid

sunglassesonthetable · 02/07/2023 11:53

How many prospective parents think about the fact that the baby they plan to conceive will one day be old, will likely suffer ill-health, and will die? That the baby will, as it gets older, have to deal with the death of every adult it knows and loves in childhood? That the baby may suffer terrible mental or physical ill-health?

God alive! Not many. Are you OK?

FourTeaFallOut · 02/07/2023 11:54

Hmm… maybe you’re AI gone rogue!

Who'd have thought that when skynet went live that it wouldn't launch the nukes at all but just hen peck people inscentantly about everything on social media until they gave up on life and collapsed in a heap of guilt ridden inertia? Doesn't have the visuals of a good block buster though.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 02/07/2023 12:21

sunglassesonthetable · 02/07/2023 11:53

How many prospective parents think about the fact that the baby they plan to conceive will one day be old, will likely suffer ill-health, and will die? That the baby will, as it gets older, have to deal with the death of every adult it knows and loves in childhood? That the baby may suffer terrible mental or physical ill-health?

God alive! Not many. Are you OK?

Yeah, of course, it's the people who think twice about bringing a child into existence, only to suffer (inevitable to some extent), who are the weird ones. Right thinking people just act on their selfish desire for a baby, and narcissistic instinct to pass their genes on.

sunglassesonthetable · 02/07/2023 12:23

Yeah, of course, it's the people who think twice about bringing a child into existence, only to suffer (inevitable to some extent), who are the weird ones. Right thinking people just act on their selfish desire for a baby, and narcissistic instinct to pass their genes on.

Are you referring to everyone who has a child then?

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 02/07/2023 12:32

sunglassesonthetable · 02/07/2023 12:23

Yeah, of course, it's the people who think twice about bringing a child into existence, only to suffer (inevitable to some extent), who are the weird ones. Right thinking people just act on their selfish desire for a baby, and narcissistic instinct to pass their genes on.

Are you referring to everyone who has a child then?

Everyone who conceives intentionally. I'm not saying people should not have children, but they should give a fuck of a lot more thought to the consequences for those children - which means thinking beyond childhood itself.

It is laughable that it is the childfree who are considered selfish. The most selfish act imaginable is to bring another human being into existence without bothering to think about the whole of the life that the child will experience as a result.

sunglassesonthetable · 02/07/2023 12:40

*Everyone who conceives intentionally. I'm not saying people should not have children, but they should give a fuck of a lot more thought to the consequences for those children - which means thinking beyond childhood itself.

It is laughable that it is the childfree who are considered selfish. The most selfish act imaginable is to bring another human being into existence without bothering to think about the whole of the life that the child will experience as a result.*

You've managed to turn a conversation about 'global populations' into individual, personal motivations.

Plus I think most people are aware that their children will die after them. ( hopefully, but not always ) as you mentioned.

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