CM CLUB - OFSTED want to see me, they wouldn't tell me why on the phone - anyone had this before???

[looneytune]

Hi everyone

I'm a tad confused. Got the day off today and came back to an answerphone message from a lady at Ofsted. Spoke to her and she said she made an unannounced visit to me this afternoon but I was out and now she wanted to arrange to see me. She's coming on Friday at 2pm.

What on earth could this be about??? Does it automatically mean I've been reported for something? I know I've not gone over my numbers at all so if someone THINKS I have then that's ok but I just can't think what else it could be? I know I shouldn't be worried as I've not done anything wrong but I'm upset about not knowing and thinking someone must have reported me for something and therefore I'm wondering who would do this

Any thoughts people?

So sorry! Is catagory 2 serious?

We understand, we just want to know that you are OK and it can all be resolved. Thinking about you.

Yep your friend is quite right, don't let it drag you down, looney, were all still here for you xxxx

Have they stopped you minding?
Whatever it is, fight it all the way.
You keep your chin up hunny x x x x

oh god LT sounds awful hugs to you

message me on facebook or email if you want to chat, i hope you're ok chick.xxx

OMG just read this just been on fb to see how you had got on
what is grade 2? can anyone enlighten me?

just msgd you oth myself, hope you're ok chick!?.x

Cat 2 complaint is poor provision needed urgent attention

So sorry you are going through this looneytune,

awww crud No idea what a catergory 2 is, but that doesn't sound good.

I hope you are ok xxx probably wise to not say online no just in case.

oh balls just been on OFSTED website and found cat 2

Looney I am that after an inspection in March that they have issued Cat2.

We are all here to support you, some of the CM's on here have exceptional experience and tons of advice, please, please just ask, whatever it is you need we can sort before your next assessment.

You don't have to give details of what's happened just send a message and say anyone got a, b or c or can you tell me how to best do whatever, we'll get you through this and if we havn't got it, we'll bloody well do it for you.

On a personal note I know how you are feeling i have had 5 complaints in 2 years, I've never put this on here before, tried to search for your personal email, but no luck, all of mine were found to be malicious and I knew where they were coming from which in a way made things a little easier, my last one was just a few weeks ago, I get a visit every few months with some new bizarre story, the inspectors are very understanding and the odd couple slightly embarrased to be calling but have a duty to follow up and I totally understand this. It doesn't however make you feel any better, and I blubbed at the last one as before she left she said that she had rarely been to a setting where the children were so happy and safe and obviously recieving an exceptional quality of care, often I wonder why I bother but at the end of the day, I know I do a good job and I have nothing to hide.

If you want anything just ask xx

LT - I am very sorry to hear this, but hopefully you were able to get your side of it to the Ofsted person and it was recognised as something dodgy someone is trying to do to you.

I am thinking of you, and I think you are right to not give too many details x

Ah so sorry - havent posted on here before but have been following this. Keep your chin up - this will get sorted out and all will be ok x

Oh sweetie! Can't believe it! Hope you're OK!

LT so sory to read about this I just can't believe that some people can be so nasty as to make up stuff up to get others in to trouble.

LT - so sorry to hear this. Please ask for support in RL if not on here. I have had 2 complaints, and found the support that my friends and family gave me a great support.

We are here if you need us.

We're all here for you. You're bigger and better than the person who is making the crap up. Don't know what to say........can only imagine how you feel.

You know you are a brill cm - and your parents and children love you, that's what matters.

I don't know you personally, but feel free to CAT me if you want to sound off. Thinkin of you hun xx

Looney - Have just got home and read this I am . I am stretching my arms out to you and giving you a massive hug please make sure you have lots of rest this weekend. xxx

Thanks so much for the support, it means a lot.

I just don't know what to do, it's horrible, horrible stuff that they've said and I can't PROVE it's lies, can only tell them it isn't true. I'm gutted as only had 1 mindee here and they were asleep. I wanted her to see me with them as they fight for cuddles and stuff and we're all so affectionate and she'd see straight away how happy they are!! I feel I didn't get that chance.

What gets to me the most is yes, it's not true but WHO is doing this to me? I just can't think and it's driving me mad. I feel very very vulnerable right now and feel that everywhere I look, I'm thinking 'is it them' I'll never find out who it is apparently but someone else said I had a right to sue them for slander - I don't see how me not being told is fair.

Not much else I can say, I've messaged those back who'd messaged me. I don't mind saying what happened to my regular mnet friends, just really paranoid now.

My dad thinks I should stop minding and this stress just isn't worth it. I LOVE my extended family to bits but the way I feel right now, if I could afford to stop, I would. I haven't slept much this week and it's still hanging over me

Sorry, very negative I know, just in a bit of a state right now. I'm sure I'll feel better when it's all sunk in.

Thanks for all your support lovely people xxx

LT

Is there anything anyone can do? What will happen now?

Yes love, you could sue for slander, because whoever is doing this is maliciously disparaging you in your trade, office or profession.

However, since there's no legal aid for libel/slander, in practice it rarely happens.

Don't forget you have the support of your other parents. I feel so sorry for you, but the truth will out x

There are some wicked, wicked people out there unfortunately, who don't think about the consequences of their words or actions, but you will get through this.

A friend of mine was reported for 'not picking a child up quick enough when it cried' and went through the whole process, as you are now. It almost destroyed her, but she vowed not to be beaten - everyone rallied round her and we got her through it. Your friends, family and fellow MNetters will get you through this too. Shout out loud when you need us

Just look back at all the lovely letters of recommendation you have! Think about how much the kids and parents love you!! And believe me, I spend more than enough time with you, seeing the day-to-day to know that it is all total rubbish. YOur mindees are so happy with you, you always put their needs first and do everything you possibly can to ensure they have a varied, fun and stimulating time! You are a fantastic CM and I would not hesitate to leave DD with you!

Don't let them get you down, hold your head up high as everyone that matters knows the truth!
xx

Looney - just seen this, how awful for you.