Hi There..missed this , i was rosegarden
Lovely of you to ask after us
Sadly brother ended up going back to her, he said it was for the children, they were being really affected by it, as thier mother was (as usual) making things up about him not loving them thats why he was staying away, that if they went to see him/nana they didnt love her and so on..i REALLY feel so sorry for the children.
Their school work was suffering and teachers were commenting on it...ALL BECAUSE she couldnt do the right thing, gloss it over for the children (even if shed lied about WHY he'd gone), say daddy still loves you but lives somewere else now and basically do what ANY good parent should do in the case of a split.
he didnt tell me he was going back to her, he now doesnt answer my calls or texts, i send money in his ds's birthday card (even though i actually haent seen his dd or ds in all this time!) as it was mine and dd's birthday while he was around and he (our mum prob paid for them) bought us gifts..but he didnt even text or give me a quick ring to say ds says thanks.....
Mum says she thinks hes heading for a breakdown and can see hes incredibly unhappy, we both keep having strangly similar dreams hes telling us "she's done it again"??..but ive told mum i cant do this again and that if situation arises she should let him know not to bother with my dd(present wise) this christmas as there is no relationship anymore
So...sad ending really, just hope it doesnt get sadder and that she controls herself now