I have only ever used one friend and my mum to babysit while DP and I went out. I just need an adult in the house while DP and I go out and do something that isn't watching TV with a bottle of wine. Children will be asleep, we'll go for a drive or dinner or the pub, I don't know.
I have found a babysitter on bubble who seems great - used to be a nanny, lots of great reviews etc. and she's sent me her dbs certificate, which is from late 2024. I don't know if this is too out of date, or standard? Would you expect it to be renewed annually?
I don't know what I'm doing to be honest and would welcome some views from people more experienced than me.