Babysitting questions

[lifeofashowwoman]

Does anyone here use a babysitter? I've been trying to find someone who I can use ad hoc to put the kids to bed and sit in so I can go out for an evening, but it doesn't seem to be much of a thing, none of my kids friends parents use babysitters, they all have family who can help.

I've seen a couple of professional babysitters advertising but then it's like £20 an hour which if you're going out for an evening is up to £100 extra, are people routinely paying that on top of a night out for childcare? Or am I right in thinking it's just not a thing and I should just give up on my dreams of going out in an evening?!

I'm very curious and puzzled about what other people do so would be very grateful if anyone can suggest any options

It’s about 15/hour here. That’s why we only do it once in a blue moon as it’s too much of an outlay.

I think unless you have family/friends/neighbours with teenagers who would be happy to do it say £40 and a takeaway you do need to find & pay for a professional which comes with a higher price tag.

Can you do some babysitting swaps with a friend?

This is why I never go out with my DH! I don’t want a night out enough if it’s going to turn into £200!